Do you think men pretend innocent more than women do in real life?

[Crazzyyworld]

If they are innocent like they say why they always chase after slutty wearing women? They r total bull shit!

[MrOracle]

1. When did men ever claim that men were innocent (as in, all men, across the board)?

2. You understand that there are 3 or 4 main categories that you can put men into, and only 1 or 2 of those groups act like the guys you're thinking of, and that a great many men do not, right?

All men know that there is a percentage of men who prioritize sex above almost everything else, and who sleep with as many women as they possibly can, and who really care nothing about the women they are sleeping with, because they're just after getting sex from as many women as they can. Every man knows men like this. They are largely the men who are very physically attractive, or have power and status, or have money, or some combination of those three. But they are the exception - maybe 10 or 15% of men at most. The problem is: most women ONLY deal with this group of men, because they're the only men that they find attractive - and I don't necessarily mean looks, because while many of them ARE found attractive because of their looks, some are attractive because they're successful or high-status, and this could include drug dealers, gang members, or dishonest businessmen, but they still control a lot of people.

Many women pretend that this group represents all men, but it's a minority group - FAR from all men. Most women have NO IDEA what most men do, because most men are invisible to most women. Unless that man is fixing your sink or delivering your food, you don't see him - and that's the majority of men. And those men - with only rare exceptions - aren't sleeping around, mostly because they can't. It takes a huge effort for them to get a single woman's attention, much less sex, and many guys go months or years without being with a woman.

Yes, if you are only after the top 10% men, then, sure, those men aren't going to be loyal to you, or even really care about you. They have too many options, and it's too easy for them to replace you (in most cases, there are already girls "on-deck" waiting to be called up), so, no, those guys are not innocent. But that doesn't mean that all men are guilty of this, because most are not. The ones who are will be the ones who have always been excused for their poor behavior because of their looks or status - and this is true of both men and women. Good morals and values come from being held responsible for your actions, not from getting away with it. That's why it's so rare to see very attractive people with good morals and values.

[Crazzyyworld]

If they r not why they judging women as a slut all the time?

[MrOracle]

I have no doubt there are examples of this that you could point to, but I don't think there are really many men who believe that ALL women are like that. We know there are women who are not.

What men get upset about is that there are so many who ARE, which makes finding the ones who aren't difficult. And there is also the issue that the ones who are eventually get upset that, because they allowed certain men to use them for sex, that those men used them for sex. The next step, of course, is blaming all men - but these women are only ever dealing with a specific portion of men, and completely ignore the majority.

It's ironic that men who get little if any female attention are constantly blamed for abusing or taking advantage of women when a lot of these men haven't even been on a date in years. The players never get blamed for what they do, and the women who choose those men never take any accountability for their own choices.

[ClassicDropout]

Nah, it's definitely women they pretend to be innocent way more. Normally I'd say these kinds of things are subjective, but I gotta put in my two cents on this. Men will say everything on their minds if you tease them a little bit. You'll have the average man dirty talking in minutes. Women will act like absolute prudes and lie about their sexual history for YEARS until they finally trust you. Not that I think anyone is obligated to tell me that information. I just noticed that a lot of the women in my life act like simply bringing up the topic of sex is inappropriate and trashy. But I've been around them when they were drunk. It's a night and day difference.

[alice55]

Definitely, there's lots of "nice guy" that are just the biggest assholes to ever walk on earth, they act nice cause they thin kit would get them girls but once they understand women can see through their lies they become absolutely nasty. Those are the one that play innocent act the more after in countries like Japan, Korea, China women do play innocent a lot there as is it popular in their culture.

[Kaneki05]

No. I think everyone pretends to be equally. We all know were savages underneath, just animals and we know pretend is the game we have to play to be good.

[Kaneki05]

Then again there is some more like me who are more open. But we all know it can't ever be fully open unless it's one like us.

[AnonAndrew]

@crazzyyworld I don't think most men claim to be innocent, heh.

[spartan55]

A very odd specific example you use, so you should generalize it to include ALL guys... 🙄 So stupid

[Emmytexrex]

I don't pretend I show you 200% real of me

[Gerard567890]

I do for sure

[eagle1951]

no i don't

[Crazzyyworld]

So you show your dirty mind broadcasting?

[eagle1951]

depends