Why do some men like to wear girl's clothes?

[Caitlyn98]

I caught my boyfriend wearing a thong he bought for himself. I was wondering if that's generally a thing men like to do?

[BobbieBoy666]

Men may choose to wear women's clothing, also known as cross-dressing, for a variety of reasons including personal expression, exploring their feminine side, challenging gender norms, seeking sexual arousal, escapism, or simply enjoying the style and fashion associated with women's clothing; the motivations can be complex and vary greatly from person to person.

Key points about cross-dressing:
Gender Identity Exploration:
Some men might cross-dress as a way to explore different aspects of their gender identity, potentially discovering a more fluid sense of self.

Creative Expression:
Wearing women's clothing can be a form of artistic expression, allowing individuals to experiment with different looks and styles.

Challenging Societal Norms:
Cross-dressing can be a way to challenge traditional gender roles and societal expectations about masculinity.

Sexual Arousal:
For some individuals, cross-dressing may be associated with sexual excitement or fantasy.

Escapism:
Wearing women's clothing can provide a temporary escape from everyday life, allowing someone to step into a different persona.

Important Considerations:
Not always a sign of gender dysphoria:
Cross-dressing does not necessarily mean someone identifies as transgender.

Privacy and Respect:
It's crucial to respect the privacy of individuals who cross-dress and not make assumptions about their motivations.

While some men may cross-dress as a way to explore their gender identity, others do it purely for the joy of self-expression and artistic exploration. In conclusion, men who dress up as women are breaking gender norms and challenging stereotypes in a creative and inspirational way.

[GoodEnoughThen]

This.

[D_Bone_Steak]

How can a man wear a woman's thong? My dick would pop out one side and my balls out the other. You'd have to be a micro penis dude with barely if any balls at all.

Yeah, I simply don't believe you.

[GoodEnoughThen]

🤣🤣🤣

[Carl0890]

I wore women’s thongs and bikini underwear for many years. It is just a matter of finding the right material that has lots of stretch. There are many women’s thongs that fit a guy and are very comfortable. Now Amazon has lots of men’s thongs that are very similar to women’s and are designed for men. Now I just wear men’s thongs. And, by the way, thong underwear is really the most comfortable.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Carl0890 That was very informative, but I'll stick to finding boxers that fit my ninja butt without streaching the pee pee hole wide open. I am not a fan of any form of tight-fitting anything. I have no choice when it comes to socks, and my feet sweat like crazy because of it.

Oh wait, I do have tight underwear I have to use for the treadmill. I have to cut a hole for my junk. I have to wear them because my inner thighs will rub and give me a rash otherwise and it burns. They are a pain on my junk without a hole cut though.

[beefcakebradybatson]

What about bull-d**ked lads?

[Julie4]

I don't know why some men like to wear women's clothes. Is there really an explanation for this?




Personally I wouldn't want my boyfriend to wear women's clothes, but everyone does what they want. I'm not a judge, I don't have to judge people for what they like or don't like, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone.

[EmmaMary]

Thankfully it's most certainly not a thing my husband would ever dream of wearing.

Purely out of curiosity, what was your immediate reaction when you caught your boyfriend?

[Caitlyn98]

The first thing I asked him how he could hide his bulge so well (I kinda forgot how small blood penises can become if they're limp 😅 my first reaction tho was surprise but I took it with humor

[EmmaMary]

I know mine would have been one of complete and utter shock horror... I can't say what the after effects would be!

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Carl0890]

Truthfully, no that is not something guys do.

However, about 10-15% of guys do like wearing girls clothes for a variety of reasons. I used to wear women’s thongs and bikini underwear most of the time. Now I wear men’s because there are lots of underwear companies that market feminine looking underwear for men. I also wear mostly women’s jeans. Both boot cut and straight leg. I don’t wear skinny jeans. My women’s jeans fit great, are a little lighter and stretchy. Yes now men’s jeans are made that way but I still like women’s jeans. I just bought a couple mini skirts and love them. They are light and airy and feel like I am wearing nothing. Now I see why women wear them. I would never wear one in public because America still can’t handle the freedom of people feeling comfortable and we are still way too judgmental. I would wear a mini skirt in public if nobody cared.

I am not gay, and have absolutely no desire to look like a woman or be a woman. I have no interest in men. I love the female form. I love and am only interested in women. However, I like wear some women’s clothes for comfort and style. I wish men’s clothes were more fun. I think men’s clothes are boring. Women’s clothes have so much more freedom of expression!

I hope I have shed some light to your question.

[GhostInTheSnow]

I'll be honest. Never did it, never wanted to do it, but I had a girl that liked me to wear her thongs. She saw it as an ownership thing. This is a relatively small ask. So yeah I wear her thongs because it excites her. It's a piece of cloth, it doesn't mean I am any less of a man/gay/trans. My girl likes it and I don't care enough to pushback if it makes her happy!
Surprisingly, she is very much submissive in the bedroom while I am more dominant. So it's odd that she likes the fact of "ownership" but again it's between her and I so who cares?

[Anonymous]

Because society, especially women said they wanted men who are emotional, in touch w their feelings. A lot of women attacked men for being masculine, calling it toxic. Now what you’re seeing is a product of men being told all these things. A lot of “men” are soft these days, many of them raised by single mothers who try to make men what they think a man should b, usually ends up being a feminized man.

[fishcake_buttie]

Exactly! What has been done to young men is atrocious. I believe there should be a middle-ground where men can be dominant and powerful and also be soft and subdued, like water can be a trickling gentle stream but can also be crashing waves, depending on the situation. I believe that men should do their duties as men but also be able to be vulnerable without it being thought of as queer. Women should feel that their men can protect them and the family, this is vitally important for a healthy relationship - the softer side should also be expressed without it being thought of as feminine. Men do cry and do melt at times just like women do but are still men and have feelings, this shouldn't be hidden from the wife and should be spoken about on forums like this, honestly and openly. It really is all about men doing what we are supposed to do and as long as we do those things, we shouldn't be classed as feminine just because we show the same feeling as reactions that women do and deluded women shouldn't be interfering with the development of boys and men the way some of them do. Feminised males and masculinsed females should realise there is a middle-ground that has nothing to do with gender, that what was done to them was wrong and then do their duties as what they are. Some men like to do their emotional reactions in private because that is more comfortable for them, other men want to be hugged and comforted but there is a stigma attached to that where others don't class them as "real men". People are unhappy for the silliest of reasons and because of what others may think of them. I think it is manly when a man knows himself and can express himself without caring what other men may think.

[Nikki1989]

It is nothing new. It goes back 100s of years. Likewise, it is just more acceptable now, so many men don't even try to hide it.

[Caitlyn98]

That makes sense 😄

[Finchie40]

Only gay or bi men do that shit , I dated a girl once that told me she busted her ex trying on her underwear and when she confronted him about it , he said he was just being silly , so she let it go , then a week or 2 later she busted him again , so she dumped him because she thought it was weird , to find out he ended up getting with a guy.

[fishcake_buttie]

It's weird when it is a shocking surprise, because instead of being honest from the start she finds out he is a liar in the closet. Same sex relationships are something people choose to engage in, it is a lie that people are "born that way". It's just that a lot of men are scared to do their duties as men, scared of impregnating a woman, scared of decades of labour to support a family and also have a deep confusion about their perverted thoughts and feel a need to prove themselves either way and find that using another man as a living masturbator gets rid of their obligation to sacrifice for a woman. As I stated in my main reply to the OP, for some of us it's just a device for enhancing sexual pleasure and has nothing at all to do with pretending to be the opposite sex or homosexuality, nor is it a constant requirement for good sex, it's just a bit of fun that gets the throb on.

[LukeAurelin]

Every one has their own thing. Generalizing all men into that is not true. I myself never worn and am not into that stuff.

maybe your boyfriend is trying to be cute for you just like “Joey was trying to prove his manliness- Friends”

[beefcakebradybatson]

Comfort, I suppose.(Long-ago race car driver Wally Dallenbach used to race in his wife Robin's panties. Dallenbach said they were much more comfortable than his underwear. Yesterday, I wore a cowboy shirt and ladies' pajama bottoms to breakfast !!!)

[Garud]

I think they do it out of curiosity. They want to see something from a woman's perspective or for a purpose for a few minutes.

Looking more than that will turn into a fetish

[fishcake_buttie]

I tried on womens clothing out of curiosity when I was a boy and ended up with a rocket in my pants. Kept doing it and decided I really need a girlfriend to use that Saturn V multi-stage rocket I developed in my pants on. It is a fetish, it's just that I wasn't exposed to endless amounts of feminised propaganda that deludes other guys into thinking they are something that they aren't and I see it as a device like others see viagra as a device that gets them rock hard. I never did it to get a womens perspective or anything, I got that by talking to women.

[Unit1]

Some boys want to be girls is my best guess. Understandably so. Men are ugly by nature's design.

[fishcake_buttie]

I just wondered what it would be like to wear a silk dress and ended up having the best wank ever because of what wearing it did to me. Totally didn't expect to be aroused by it and wasn't pretending to be a girl. Ugly men are ugly the same way ugly women are ugly. Fat hairy men look ridiculous in womens clothing, have no sense of style... The same way fat hairy women look ridiculous dressing like they are lumberjacks and-the-like. I do it for the same reasons others watch porn : ( or use vibrating rings or drugs like viagra - it enhances sexual pleasure and there are practical reasons the same as women wearing their man's baggy t-shirts. It used to be normal for men to wear a nightdress because of the practicality and comfort over long-johns with a button flap at the backside, or pyjama bottoms that crush the genitals if a shuffler in bed. Now men are made to feel silly even though a nightdress is comfortable, yet women are judged so harshly.

Men who think they are women are mentally ill.

[GoodEnoughThen]

Maybe he is just curious to see what the women's experience of wearing a thong is like. Probly not gonna become his go-to for the big ping pong tournament...

[ManOnFire]

I can't understand that either even for me as a man. Never could figure out why you have guys that are so into that.

[HawkPerception]

Pretty sure the majority of men find those kinds of guys to be gay. If your partner is doing this, it's likely that he's gay.

[FunkyMonkee]

Why do most girls like to wear men's clothes?

[FunkyMonkee]

@Joslyne97 Exactly!! Society thinks there's some unwritten law of physics where a girl can wear guys clothes and everything's fine but if a guy wears girls clothes, all of a sudden his balls drop off, his dick goes back to being a clit and he'll start singing in falsetto, grow tits and run to the store to buy Barbie dols!!

[Levin]

Maybe it's cause your boyfriend is German?

[Caitlyn98]

So German guys like to wear panties and dress up as girls? 😄

[Levin]

German people are kinky and perverted.

[fishcake_buttie]

German people are lovely in general... It's just that their culture was interfered with by a foreign element and SOME of them still adhere to that counter-culture that resulted in the Weimar Republic. It's the same thing that happened to the Eastern Europeans including European Russia, China - grand perversion that normalised degenerate behaviour that was than passed down in family units until today. Germans are aware of that history and most of them are repulsed by it and those who still practice those ways.

[Anonymous]

I like to wear woman's bikini bottoms, they are so comfortable and I feel great in them. I am not gay, never been with a dude and never want to be.

[zagor]

No idea. Women's clothes look like they would be very uncomfortable to me. I don't even know why women wear them.

[fishcake_buttie]

Some clothes are, some aren't... Women often sacrifice comfort for style and some prefer comfortable clothes - the same way some men like skinny jeans yet I find they crush my genitals and my thighs are very muscular and my hips are quite wide and very tight in those jeans, yet womens jeans have more space in the thighs and hips and look better below the knees and have more space for the backside and it is harder to find mens jeans that fit me and still look good. Women buy mens clothes for similar reasons because of their bodyshape. Womens night clothes are also more comfortable... Why a guy would wear a bra when they haven't got tits to put in them, I don't know! XD

[Jay-_-]

I dont know why he'd want to wear a thong and no it is not what "guys do" 😂

[GoodEnoughThen]

One thing that guys do is be curious, said Pornhub.

[Jay-_-]

Horrible place to take advice from.

[GoodEnoughThen]

Advice? What advice is be taken? (Feel free to expand.)

[genericname85]

sort of a controversial take but i think that's Autogynephilia.

[genericname85]

and i think that's more common in guys who have spend a lot of time not having an actual mate.

[Anonymous]

Some people do that, but usually they’re trans

[dougeats]

I only wear panties if a girls going to peg me or a guy asks me to

[dougeats]

@Joslyne97 ok

[dougeats]

@Joslyne97 If you're near me and thats your pic I am

[dougeats]

@Joslyne97 of course

[JesseP1nk]

You boyfriend is GAY! Like wtf? Do you need to see him blowing someone?

[Emmytexrex]

I don't know why a guy will do that certainly not me or my friends so yh Maybe he is bisexual

[Johnno99]

I do think there is no problem to a Man wearing Women1s clothing as for decades now Women have worn trousers.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Same reason why most girls like to wear guy's clothes

[vj0090]

Look somewhere else sweetie... u will find some of his sex toys too.. haha... that's gross

[Anonymous]

I can only speak for myself when I say that I will never have any interest in wearing female clothing

[Elliegirl]

Was it a guy thong or a girl thong?

[MaryJane330]

I don't know why, but I dream of turning a manly man into a woman.

[dougeats]

@MaryJane330 my ex girlfriend did too but she just convinced me to go bi not turn into a woman

[Crazzyyworld]

They hate their own life not telling you

[glennos89]

Your boyfriend is fucking weird tbh

[tzdc21]

Um, no. At least the guys i know don't.

[GoodEnoughThen]

Curious, how do you know this?

[tzdc21]

@GoodEnoughThen because I've known them for YEARS. And not once have they worn any girl clothing. I'd think i would know if they would by now or not.

[GoodEnoughThen]

Fair enough.

[Staximus]

Because they are homosexuals

[RingOfFire]

That would be no. It's abnormal.

[seeyounexttuesday]

Because they're gay.

[Benlovegs]

ever catch a guy sniffing your panties?

[BarryLiverstone]

Wouldn’t work with parts of our body.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope that's not normal and gay asf

[13cmlong]

No not straight men generally.

[Anonymous]

Because some men are gay.

[MasterKS]

Thats so weird! LOL

[Cipher_Ledger]

He's gay lol

[KrakenAttackin]

Hell no.

[Founding_Daddy]

not that many