Anybody ever just need a random opposite sex member to talk to?

[Lottydotty]

[Anonymous]

I can't speak generally for others but as for myself I would say yes to needing to talk to the opposite sex every once and a while. Humans are social creatures at their core and depending how we are wired we each have our similar and individual social needs.

I do have friends and classmates of the opposite sex to talk to so in a sense that need is fulfilled on that first level of interaction.

But I don't have a female true true friend that I can tell and talk about the various deeper thoughts on my mind or the personal troubles and shadows that arise greater in my mind in the lonely isolation of night.

I wish I had someone like that.

Even further I wish I had someone to love in my life now. I have so much passion and life within me I make everybody smile and uplift the spirits of those around me but they never see what happens behind the curtain so to speak. That is partially by choice I learned long ago most don't want to be around a sad sack or will be able to drop what they are doing to help you so I don't want to unload my problems on them like that.

It certainly can be a lonely existence it's like drinking from a goblet and never being able to drink all that is offered or fully appreciate the taste of life. I am thankful for the good things I have in my life it's just that you feel those empty parts at times and feel pieces of yourself are missing.

So yes I do have that need every now and then wishing I could talk to someone of the opposite sex but even beyond have deeper meaningful conversations with her and even find one to love. Sorry to carry on guess this was on my mind.

[Anonymous]

No. Women don’t live the life I do or go through the same thing men do so they wouldn’t know what we as men go through. One lives in Disneyland, the other lives in reality.

[Lowiu]

Sometimes its nice to talk about things with people who have realy different perspectives in life

[katiesmuff]

For me it is either my husband or dad that gets that honor!

[BarryLiverstone]

If they are a stranger that’s ick talking about sex. Isn’t it?

[Anonymous]

Yes.. I feel that need re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Abbycado]

Nope

[In_Trance]

Nope