Would a guy being sleepy after seeing me be my problem?

[Anonymous]

I saw a guy that I’m dating two days ago and since he saw me he says he’s been very sleepy and tired.

He says he’s like this every time after he sees me.

Why would he be like this? Has it got anything to do with me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's a kinda weird situation with your guy if he's been super sleepy and tired every time after he sees you. I can see why you'd be wondering if it has something to do with you.

The first thing that comes to mind is that maybe hanging out with you just really wears him out, you know? Like, he's putting in a lot of energy and effort when he's with you, and then afterwards he just crashes. Some guys can be like that, especially if they're naturally more introverted.

Another possibility is that seeing you just puts him in such a good mood that he ends up feeling really relaxed and sleepy afterwards. Kind of like how you just feel all cozy and ready for a nap after a really nice date or something. The time with you might just be that energizing for him.

But it's also possible that there could be something else going on, like maybe he's not getting enough sleep in general or he's dealing with some other health issue that makes him fatigued. In that case, it might not have much to do with you at all.

My advice would be to try not to take it too personally. Unless he's giving you other signs that he's not into it, the sleepiness is probably just his own thing. I'd suggest talking to him about it, but don't accuse him of anything or make assumptions. Just express your concern and see what he says.

The important thing is that he's upfront with you about it. If he's truly being honest and it's not a red flag, then you don't need to stress. Just be understanding and supportive. Relationships take work, but you got this!

[HusamRocks]

It could be good or bad but mostly good, it might mean u make him comfortable that he becomes relieved and relaxed 👍🏻