Guys, Men, if a woman exposed you all over social media what would you do?

[Anonymous]

Say you were a jerk to her and primarily wanted to have sex with her even tho you made it seem like you wanted more… you rejected her and almost a year later she found out that you possibly slept with trans/ non binary people and she’s exposed you all over social media….

what would you do and why

Ignore her/ mute her

Sue her

Talk to her to diffuse the situation

Apologize

Other

[Anonymous]

I haven't done anything bad that she could expose me for, definitely never slept with a trans person before either.

However, I have had an ex make up lies about me and I didn't care that much. If other people want to blindly believe her, that's out of my control and those people aren't people I want in my life anyway.

[Asker]

What if a guy hasn’t said anything at All?

[Opinion Owner]

He doesn't care.

[Opinion Owner]

Wait, I remember you lol troll

[Asker]

In response to her exposing him

[Asker]

Why wouldn’t he care?

[BarryLiverstone]

If I still knew her I’d try to talk to her as that’s not my vibe to do all that, so she might be getting bad info. But if she kept going it’s best to ignore as fake things are posted to socials daily and character matters more irl

[Asker]

What do you think a guy hasn’t responded to any of her efforts of exposing him?… especially if she’s used his picture,.. found his social media and made sure his friends saw

[BarryLiverstone]

Probably because he knows any response will just encourage her to get more revenge. Why does she want to bring his friends into it?

[Asker]

But ignoring her is making her angrier… so since he’s ignoring her bringing friends into would get his attention (she thought)…

[BarryLiverstone]

Get his attention in a very negative way. That’s only going to trigger his protective instinct and his friends will rally and support him if they are true friends. She will come off as toxic and manipulative. It stirs the pot in a negative way and he may ignore her for now but it could heat up

[BarryLiverstone]

Why does she want his attention if he rejected her?

[Asker]

Because she feels like he tried to use her for sex even though she had her boundaries and guard up.. he tried to emotionally make her feel safe and make it seem like he wanted something just to use her.. then to find out he isn’t straight triggered her because she felt that he should have said that

But you’re right his friends may support him… but that doesn’t change the fact that she feels he’s a predator

She has very conflicted feelings for him still.. she’s struggling to let go and deep down she wishes he cared or treated her like she mattered

[BarryLiverstone]

Seems like she has self work to do and lashing out at him and his friends isn’t a solution. Better to reflect on decisions made and forgive herself to not make those mistakes again. What’s in the past can stay there and to be healthy she needs to cut him outta her life

[BarryLiverstone]

If he’s a predator she’s in no good position to help others because she still loves him

[Asker]

What about him? … how does he feel about her? Why hasn’t he even tried reaching out or suing?

[BarryLiverstone]

He likely has already done his self work and moved past her. She’s a memory and today if she tries to hurt him or those he cares about then he may have to take action

[Asker]

Wouldn’t self work include taking more accountability?… or even reassessing the situation?

[BarryLiverstone]

Usually. Are you saying that he hasn’t changed his behavior? I’m not following what you mean be accountability

[Asker]

No… he’s avoiding her and the reason she exposed him is because he blocked her number after directly texting him that he’s a predator and downlow

[BarryLiverstone]

If he blocked her then it’s best she moves on. Let him make his own choices in life and she go away from him

[Asker]

Why does he hate her or dislike her so much when all she wanted was to be wanted by him… he’s the one who wronged her… he did provide closure when things ended but only because she practically had to beg him

[BarryLiverstone]

I don't know.. by the way either I blocked you or you blocked me as I have to click reply to see what you wrote on here. I don’t think I can be of much help tho. Sorry

[Asker]

Well maybe he just thinks a trans is better I don't know

[BarryLiverstone]

Is that chels?

[Asker]

🥺.. yes

[BarryLiverstone]

Thought so. Couldn’t remember many gaggers talking about trans

[Anonymous]

I'm not one of those assholes so can't think about it

[Asker]

Why wouldn’t he care that I exposed him

[spartan55]

Still think social media, is evidence huh?

[slatyb]

Exposed what?

[Asker]

Being gay

[spartan55]

But you said you aren't actually sure of that...

[Asker]

@spartan55 but I have enough evidence to know he’s not straight