Should I move on if he didn’t ask for my number or try to reach out?

[Anonymous]

The only thing he did was look back at me before leaving the room… I think he was talking to someone (no relationship)

I don’t see him often at church

I feel jealous… it’s like I’m not beautiful.. and all I want is for him to notice me.

He doesn’t like you

He’s not attracted to you

Other

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw girl, I totally get why you're feeling jealous and insecure about this guy not reaching out to you. It's natural to want him to notice you and show some interest, especially if you're already crushing on him.

But try not to be too hard on yourself or assume it has anything to do with your looks or beauty. Sometimes guys can be really oblivious or hesitant to make the first move, even if they're interested. It doesn't necessarily mean you're not attractive enough.

The fact that he looked back at you before leaving the room is actually a good sign! That suggests he was at least aware of you and maybe felt some intrigue. He could just be shy or unsure of how to approach you.

My advice would be to try not to overthink it too much. If you see him again and feel that connection, maybe you could try striking up a casual conversation. Get to know him a bit and see if there are any sparks. Let him see your confidence and personality.

But at the same time, don't feel like you have to wait around forever for this guy to make a move. If he continues to show no real interest after a while, it might be time to start moving on. You deserve someone who is excited to get to know you.

Try to focus on the other positive relationships and activities in your life. Surround yourself with people who make you feel beautiful and appreciated. Build up your own confidence, so you don't have to rely on this one guy's validation.

There are plenty of awesome guys out there who would be lucky to have you, girl. Don't sell yourself short just because this one guy hasn't stepped up yet. Keep your head high, and be open to meeting new people. The right one will come along when the time is right. Hang in there!

[Asker]

I guess I’ll move on. Thank you 🙏

[Oliverlogan263]

You got this, girl! I know it's not easy, but moving on is definitely the way to go here. You deserve someone who's going to appreciate you and make the effort.

Don't be too hard on yourself - this isn't a reflection on your worth. Some people are just shy or oblivious, you know? It's not your fault.

But you're right, it's time to focus that energy on yourself and finding people who will see how amazing you are. You're a catch, don't forget that!

I'm glad I could help a little. Just keep being confident and putting yourself out there. The right person will come along when the time is right. In the meantime, you do you! You've got this.

[Keyboardkat]

First, you are not the best judge of whether you are beautiful or not. That is in the eye of the beholder, and everyone has different preferences. You may have just the right traits to ring a certain guy's chimes, and if he's the right one, then you're home free! Secondly, don't give up so easily. If you can be friendly, and talk to him in a relaxed and confident way, he may give you a second look, and a third, and he may decide, "What have I been missing?"

[Iron_Man]

Ask him for his number

[Asker]

No thnx lol

[Iron_Man]

Remember the old expression, you snooze you lose

[Asker]

Well if other women didn’t have to why should I? Plus he’s used to getting attention

[Iron_Man]

Enjoy being by yourself alone that’s what happens when shy people never react or do anything about it

[spartan55]

@asker
That's really a horrible attitude.

[Iron_Man]

@spartan55 yes it is

[Asker]

Well if he brings women to church.. attractive women who didn’t have to beg for his attention… why should I?

[spartan55]

@asker giving him your number is NOT begging for anything. Just because you do nothing, and expect him to make all the moves, doesn't mean that's how all women operate. .

[Iron_Man]

@spartan55 good words here

[Asker]

I just think if a guy likes me he will reach out

[Iron_Man]

Most girls think like you and then they lose out you’ll see

[Asker]

That’s okay… I like men who act like men and are brave enough even if he’s scared.. he’s not shy

[Iron_Man]

Good luck being single the rest of your life men now have changed because women are too overpowering and too controlling and they make too many demands which scares men off

[Iron_Man]

It’s not that we’re afraid of you. It’s because we’re afraid of you leaving us with your heavy duty demands like we can never please you that there’s always something else you have to bring up and get done but meanwhile, the man does it and you don’t do it but you expect us to get it done for you

[Anonymous]

Try approaching him.

[spartan55]

Move on from what?

[Asker]

Liking him

[spartan55]

He's not interested, so it's up to you.

[Asker]

Right that’s why I said I’ll move on

What makes you say he isn’t interested?

[spartan55]

You've been posting about that guy for months and nothing has happened.