How can he seem interested in trans rights yet treat me (woman) so poorly with predatory behavior?

[Anonymous]

He really hurt me and just overall disrespected me and my boundaries… I didn’t know that he was attracted to trans women or non binary people… I had no idea. I would have never entertained him. I feel like shit I feel less than and I hate that I liked and cared about him when he only wanted sex and it seem like he wanted more

if he wanted to be with a trans etc he should have just went with one.. I’m not collateral until he figures himself out.

this situation still hurts

[Anonymous]

People can be bad in one area and good in another. My mom for example is feminist and believes women should have the same rights as men, but she also believes gay people should have some rights taken away and even potentially be criminalized. Some gay people are women (including her own daughter). The values don't match up but she doesn't see it or care, she feels so strongly about both that the feeling overshadows the obvious contradiction.

[BarryLiverstone]

Happy Thanksgiving chels

[Asker]

Thanks

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome

[Asker]

You didn’t answer my question. You usually do

[BarryLiverstone]

Well once I figured out it was you, I knew answering it doesn’t help. You will ask it again.

[Asker]

This one is different tho

[Asker]

I must be really bad for a guy to rather be with a trans woman but okay

[BarryLiverstone]

Yup ok

[BarryLiverstone]

If I usually answer your q., than you are ok using me.

[Asker]

You always block me and that’s not true at all.

[BarryLiverstone]

Then what is the truth?

[Asker]

Truth regarding what again?

[BarryLiverstone]

“You always block me and that’s not true at all.”

[Asker]

I’m not using you.