Is it a normal thing nowadays that men update you without you asking?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I don’t. Don’t need to. She knows how I am. We’ve been together 16 years. Wouldn’t be where we’re at in life if I had to update her w everything. she's known me long enough to trust that I will make the right decisions w out having to update her. Does that mean I don’t talk to her at all about things? No, definitely not.

[bowenw]

I don't unless asked, except if I'm going to be away and suspect someone might be wondering why I'm not replying right away.

[Asker]

fair enoughhhh

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[jazzy34]

Update you…how? More context please.

[Asker]

i am chatting with a guy and he would just drop updates about where is he going or what he is doing especially if he would response late, he would apologize for replying late too, I am just amazed since I've never been treated like this before.

[jazzy34]

He must be interested in you and he wants you to know what’s going on in his day. 😊

[Asker]

that made my heart skipped a beat haha

[spartan55]

Update you about what?

[Asker]

his everyday endeavors especially if he response late

[spartan55]

Okay... what is he supposed to talk to you about?

[Asker]

we tend to talk about our daily lives and other things randomly haha

[spartan55]

Okay... that would fall, under updates right?

[Asker]

hmm updates for me are those random facts about what he is going to do for the day or where he is going hahaha sometimes he suddenly drop it without me asking or while I was talking about a different topic, thats why it surprised me haha