Guys, What does it mean when guy says he wants to take things slowly?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been on 2 dates. Didn’t kiss, only hugs and touching of my waist - that’s it. When I asked why we still didn’t kiss he said he wants to take things slowly. What does it mean? He got out of his last relationship a year ago.

[Joshua_H_1010011001]

Yeah men and women are very different creatures.

If he says somthing, he means it.

Simple.

Then the question is why dose he want to do that.

He dosent "mean" anything by saying it, he is saying it because that's is literally what he wants to do.

The best thing you can do is ask... Why.

And he will tell you, literally... The reason why... Not sending a secret inferred message.

Then if you want to move faster, all you have to do is say "I understand that and respect it, and I can't wait (As in you are excited for it to happen) until your ready because I want you now"

And you can be as playful or restrained as you like, depending how well you know them or know they can take a joke... As in be as bold as "I want you now, like literally inside me... Lols jokes haha"... You would be supprised how quickly things will progress 👍

[D_Bone_Steak]

It means he wants to take things slowly. Why are you making that complicated?

The dude is probably relationship-minded instead of just trying to get some pussy lips around his dick. So he's showing you respect and this is also an excellent way to weed out the party girls... because the good time party girls will get bored and start fucking Chad and Tyrone on the side pretty fast instead of trying to reel him into a committed relationship and still go fuck Chad and Tyrone once she has him tied up in a relationship. Or...

Or he could be a flaming bundle of sticks and he's keeping that hidden in the closet to look straight. He's able to say he went on a date with a woman, which proves he's not gay.

[Elf_Erectus]

The main punishment Santa Claus can do is waiting for Christmas to come. Santa is an overprotective figure, and he's not one to reward people for taking things slowly. Instead, he spends a great deal of time creating magical moments for his elves to enjoy. So, if you're taking things slowly, Santa will wait for you to come to him on Christmas morning to take your presents and give you your cookies.

But what if you're not taking things slowly? Well, Santa will definitely flog you and affix clothes pins to your testicles. And, as if that weren't enough, he would tie your ankles to your wrists and sodomize you like his little ho ho ho.

Overall, taking things slowly is a powerful tool for moving forward in life, and it's important to practice it regularly. However, if you're not taking things slowly, be sure to take steps to make sure you're on track and fulfilled.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Elf_Erectus "affix clothes pins to your testicles" 😂 🤣

[RHK36]

It's only been 2 dates. Low-key he's been correct about it and respectful. You just not used to it probably because you've only dated red flags. Now later on if it turns out he had other motives then it ain't on you. For now I'd just take him at his word.

[ohsheeT]

It means. He is manipulating you in the believing something that's not true he's telling you what you want to hear. And the moment you believe that is when he will start doing whatever it takes to get into your pants

[ProbablyClueless]

He wants to date, but doesn't want to run the risk of making the same mistakes he did before.

[Hellraiser1984]

He doesn't want to rush in and screw it up. He respects you. Guys who just want sex rush in to get sex. They don't care about you just sex.

[DrPepper12]

Gonna go out on a limb here and say he wants to take things slowly...

[D_Bone_Steak]

Exactly this

[In_Trance]

It means you must be really slow if you don't understand that. If you're not sure ask for clarification

[Jay-_-]

Maybe he's not ready mentally, I know I understand that.

[kaucky1]

Not sure of manhood afraid something might fall off get stuck thatw why they might talk a lot

[Wolfcat43]

It means he wants to take things slowly.

[Asker]

My question is more on whether it means that he’s not attracted to me as a woman at all?

[Danny_dan92]

He wants to take things slowly

[animesenpai]

Maybe nervous

[Jamie05rhs]

Ask him.

[moneymagnet24]

You smell badly

[Jmmmfi4]

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