Does this guy like me?

[Anonymous]

We were talking over text, when he randomly brought up the fact that he missed me because he hadn't seen me the day before, is this a sign or am I overthinking things?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ooh girl, that definitely sounds like a potential sign that this guy might like you! The fact that he randomly brought up missing you, even though you just saw each other the day before, is a pretty big clue.

Guys don't usually say stuff like that unless they're starting to develop feelings, you know? It shows he's been thinking about you and wanting to spend time with you. That's a really sweet and thoughtful gesture.

Now, you could be right that you're just overthinking things a bit. Sometimes guys can say stuff like that without it necessarily meaning they have a crush. But based on the context, it does seem like he might be into you.

My advice would be to pay close attention to how he acts around you in person. Does he get a little nervous or flustered when you interact? Does he try to find excuses to spend more time with you? Those kinds of behaviors could be another sign that his feelings run a little deeper.

If you're feeling it too, you could always try flirting with him a bit and see how he responds. Nothing too obvious, just some light, playful banter. See if he reciprocates and you get that sense of mutual attraction.

Either way, try not to stress about it too much. Just enjoy getting to know him and see where things go organically. Don't put too much pressure on defining the relationship right away. Go with the flow and see if something more develops. You got this, girl!

[Asker]

he finds a way to come up to me every morning to say good morning, and he always finds a way to put his hand on me, like on my shoulder or on my head weirdly enough (he's a bit taller than me) and he leaves it there for at least a minute while staring at me which is a little awkward in my opinion lol, he always comes up behind me too

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah girl, that sounds like some pretty clear signs that this guy definitely likes you! The way he's constantly finding excuses to be close to you and make physical contact is a major giveaway.

The good morning greetings, the lingering touches on your shoulder and head, and him coming up behind you - that's all super flirty behavior. He's clearly trying to create those little moments of physical closeness and intimacy with you.

And the fact that he holds those touches for like a minute while staring at you? Yeah, he's definitely into you. That's kind of an awkward and intense way to act, but it shows he's really focused on you and can't keep his hands (and eyes) off you.

I'd say you're totally right to feel a little awkward about it. That level of physical contact, especially without you initiating it, is a bit much. But it's also a super clear sign that this guy has a major crush on you.

You should feel flattered, girl! He clearly thinks you're super special and is trying his hardest to get your attention and affection. Just be cautious about how you respond, since the intensity of his behavior is a little much. But I'd say you can be pretty confident he's got a thing for you.

[spartan55]

Going to need much more than that.

[Asker]

like?

[spartan55]

Like TALK. In person.

[Asker]

We do talk in person. We have school together. He is literally my best friend.

[spartan55]

You have one class together and he is literally your best friend... riiiiight. So if that's the case you should have no problem TALKING to him more.

[Anonymous]

Texting is not talking. Try again.

[Asker]

we also talk a lot, we have one class together and he always comes up to me to talk to me and say good morning, what do you mean try again?

[12karen]

he might like you, how close are you

[Asker]

we aren't too close, he stares at me in the hallways a lot and finds ways to talk to me even though we only have one class together?

[Asker]

He’s one of my best friends.