Do you think this guy likes me and what should I do in this situation?

[Anonymous]

I have a male friend who I really like. Until now, we were just friends, but very close and we talked almost every day. For a while, he started behaving very very nicely with me. He gave me a very expensive perfume for my birthday (Parfums de Marley), he wrote me a very nice message for my birthday at 00:00, he tells me that I am special to him, he writes to me every day to ask me how I am doing. In short, he makes me feel very good and special, no one has ever made me feel like this before. But the problem is that I already have a boyfriend and he knows it. At the same time, I am also attached to him and I appreciate very much what he does for me. Do you think he has fallen in love with me? And what should I do in this situation?

[_Maya_]

How do you not know what to do? You have a boyfriend. It is pretty simple. You do nothing because you are committed to someone already. You are obviously thinking of cheating because otherwise this wouldn't be a question. You know what the right thing to do it yet here you are asking if you should do something about this friend that you suspect might have a thing for you or possibly love you. The biggest issue is that you can easily lose a friend (and your boyfriend for that matter) by taking any sort of action with this guy. Perhaps he is just a very nice friend and likes to stay in touch but doesn't have feelings. It really doesn't matter because if you are faithful you will stay with your boyfriend.

[Asker]

The reason I'm in this relationship is because I never thought he could look at me as his girlfriend.

[Nikki1989]

By being honest and setting clear boundaries, you can maintain a positive friendship without leading him on. If he doesn't get it, well, not your problem.

[BarryLiverstone]

Help him find a girlfriend

[Asker]

I wouldn't feel good seeing him with another girl.

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s a problem then. You have a boyfriend so why can’t he have a girlfriend?

[Asker]

The reason I'm in this relationship is because I never thought he could look at me as his girlfriend.

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s not fair to your boyfriend

[In_Trance]

I don't think so