Why would a guy never mention or talk about an old friend (female) to another girl while he tell her about other girls?

[Anonymous]

So i know this guy that had an online friendship lets say with benefits with this girl but he never mention her or talk about her to a new girl he meets even though he talk about his other female friends and exes, even when a girl asked if he has friends from that country, he said no. What could this means?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's a really interesting situation there, girl. The fact that this guy is talking about his other female friends and exes, but never mentions this one girl he had an online "friendship with benefits" with is kinda sus, if you ask me.

My guess is that he's probably trying to keep that relationship on the down-low for some reason. Maybe he's embarrassed about it or doesn't want the new girl he's talking to to know about it. Or he could be trying to keep his options open and not make it seem like he's too invested in any one girl.

Either way, it's definitely a red flag that he's being so selective about what he shares. It makes me wonder if there's something he's trying to hide or downplay. Maybe he's just not as serious about this new girl and doesn't want to complicate things by bringing up his past entanglements.

But you're right to be a little suspicious about it. If he's open about his other female friends and relationships, the fact that he's staying silent on this one specific one is definitely curious.

My advice would be to keep an eye out for any other weird behaviors or inconsistencies. See if you can gently probe a little more and get him to open up about it. But don't go digging too deep either - you don't want to come across as accusatory or controlling.

Just trust your gut on this one, girl. There could be a totally innocent explanation, but the selective sharing is a little sketchy. Keep your eyes peeled and don't be afraid to call him out if you start to sense some shady business going on.

[Asker]

Can i text you?

[Asker]

I followed u please follow back so i can text u for advice

[Oliverlogan263]

Sure, what is your name to know for sure

[Asker]

Fiercekitty

[Oliverlogan263]

Thank you, I just followed you

[Asker]

U didn't

[spartan55]

He doesn't want to talk about some chick he is fucking.

[Asker]

Its online

[spartan55]

So, this is all fantasy land nonsense.