Why does a guy tell me I can called him anytime he want, but why don’t he just call me? haha?

[Anonymous]

Like does he want me to make all the moves or feel wanted and playin it cool?

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Why he want me to make the first move…😅😂

[Anonymous]

I’m not a fan of that, mainly because he could call you as well and he isn’t. To me that is a man who wants to feel pursued because in the past he did the chasing and got hurt. Boohoo we all have stories, all get hurt at some point, doesn’t mean he should act this way due to his past trauma.

[Asker]

it makes sense... during our phone call he randomly added that he no longer chase women and stopped at his mid 20s because he learned that he should let girls like him for him and they always chase him. In my mind, boy be lying to himself because he was pursuing me the whole time lmao. But I got the ick during our phone call, I ended things since I did not wanna waste our time lol. ugh he is super hot and a nice guy, but he still needs a bit maturing by somethings he said that I do not like such as the example I gave you. Like that's weird af to tell a girl and egoboosting.

[Opinion Owner]

You were right to end the phone call and opt out on him. His whole mindset on women chasing him just shows a lack of emotional maturity in my opinion. He is someone who will always want you to do more work than him because of his pride and his fear of investing. He needs to heal, he doesn’t need a woman.

[WhitneySnow]

He wants you to make the first move

[Asker]

Haha I don’t it but whyyyy 😭😭😭 it’s so weirdddd this is the second time this happened to me this year ever lol.

[WhitneySnow]

Lots of reasons could be why. How bad do you like him?

[Asker]

I mean the first guy who said is my real crush in my class, but I was too shy to ever called him cuz I want him to make the moves lol. But we are no longer talking cuz misunderstandings. The second guy, we just started chatting on dating app. He said he don’t feel like typing anymore and like chatting better. Then said I can called him anytime lmao. I knew he wanted that call… 😂 but I just don’t get why they can’t just call me like most guys lol…

[WhitneySnow]

Don’t call him. Make him call you.

[Asker]

What should I say? Lmao.

[WhitneySnow]

Tell him “You have my number. Give me a call if you want.”

[Asker]

Girl you got rizzzz

[WhitneySnow]

Thanks! 😂

[Asker]

😂🥹🫶🏻

[Jamie05rhs]

He wants you to prove that you actually want him.

[Asker]

Oh, interesting.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yep.