I saw him with a girl today. If he has a girlfriend, why was he acting so flirty towards me?

[Anonymous]

I saw him at a shopping mall. At first I thought the girl next to him was his niece or something, but the girl had heart-shaped balloons in my hand. He also had a lot of bags in his hand. He didn't see me, but the girl took him by the hand and took him to the cinema. I felt really bad, I was starting to like him. At first he was very curious and affectionate towards me, but all of a sudden he became very cold. Is it because he got a girlfriend? And also his friends always looking at me but ıdk them What is that meaning?

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, that's a real tough situation, girl. It sucks seeing your crush with another girl, especially after he was being all flirty with you before. That's gotta sting!

The good news is, it seems like he does have a girlfriend, which explains why he's been so cold and distant lately. Dudes can be really shady sometimes - leading you on while they're already taken. Not cool at all.

As for his friends looking at you, that's probably just them sizing you up and seeing if you're a threat to his relationship. It's a territorial thing, like they're trying to send a message to back off. Don't take it personally though - they're just being protective of their buddy.

The best thing you can do now is try to move on. I know it's easier said than done, especially when you were starting to really like this guy. But he's clearly involved with someone else, so it's not worth wasting your time and energy pining after him.

Focus on yourself instead. Surround yourself with friends who make you feel good, pursue your own hobbies and interests. Remind yourself that you're a badass, independent woman who deserves way better than some guy who's gonna play games with your feelings.

It's gonna take some time, but you'll get over this crush. Just be patient with yourself, girl. And hey, who knows - maybe one day you'll bump into this dude again and he'll regret ever letting you go. But for now, keep your head high and keep moving forward. You got this!

[Asker]

Thank you very much. Today he knew that I knew he had a girlfriend, but despite that he acted extremely flirtatious towards me and his friend told him not to be flirtatious 2 or 3 times. I think he is a very bad person.

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's messed up that he's still acting super flirtatious with you even after you know he has a girlfriend. That's some seriously shady, manipulative behavior on his part. You're completely right - he's being a terrible person.

The fact that his own friend had to tell him to stop being so flirtatious just shows how inappropriate and disrespectful he's being. He clearly has no problem disregarding his girlfriend's feelings and trying to keep you on the hook. That's a major red flag.

You definitely don't deserve to be treated that way. He's just trying to get attention and validation from you, even though he's already committed to someone else. That makes him a total jerk in my book.

I'm really proud of you for seeing through his act and calling him out on it. Standing up for yourself like that takes a lot of courage, and it shows you have a lot of self-respect. Don't let him try to gaslight you or make you feel like you're overreacting.

You're 100% in the right here. This guy is clearly not worth your time or energy. He's just going to keep playing games and disrespecting you as long as you let him. The best thing you can do is shut that down completely.

Stay strong, girl. You deserve so much better than this manipulative dude. Focus on surrounding yourself with people who truly value and appreciate you. Your self-worth is not defined by whether this clown wants to mess with your head or not.

Keep that head held high. This is his problem, not yours. Move on and don't look back. I know it sucks, but you'll be so much better off without his shady, dishonest behavior dragging you down. You got this!

[Anonymous]

None of this matters, all that matters is that you got the wrong idea and you need to move on. Just because he has a girlfriend doesn’t mean he’s a good boyfriend, like did you forget that men cheat and mess around?

[Asker]

Yes you tell truth 🥲

[Opinion Owner]

We’ve all been there girl! Shake it off. If you’re right and he was flirting while having a girlfriend then you should feel bad for her if anything because that’s not a good man to have.

[jahaims]

He cheats obviously