I’m nervous. He’s comfortable. Now what?

[Iotjaorb]

My crush is comfortable around me.

I realized my work crush of years is comfortable around me I’m just a nervousawkward chick lol

I finally realized this… he’s comfy around me. I don't know what to do. I’m giddy and nervous. lol

[Summeroflove]

Well what now is talking to him letting him know where he stands with you as well as asking where you stand with him.

If you’re interested in him then tell him and see if he will go out with you to get coffee. Chances are if he’s single he likes you but nothing is a guarantee so I understand being nervous but more on that later.

Don’t assume you’re the only woman who has a crush on him. He could be interested but just assume it’s too big of a risk depending on who he is to you. Another woman could catch his attention and he starts loosing interest. Another woman could just outright make a move on him too. Anything can happen…. So don’t miss your chance and be sad later.

Another thing let’s say you’re friend-zoned. Let’s say you get rejected romantically number one you at least have a friend if there was nothing likable about you he wouldn’t even want to be that. Number two you’re not wasting your time on someone who isn’t attracted to you that way. Will never make a move on you. The list goes on you’re able to grieve and eventually find somebody else.

But that is worse case scenario part of the thrill I guess you could say is asking. Get the hard part out of the way even if it’s awkward. It’s scary. It’s hard…. At the end of the day you could start a amazing relationship or just move on. It all just really depends.

[Nikki1989]

It says here you are 67. You sound more like an immature 17-year-old.

[WhitneySnow]

Try talking to him till you feel more comfortable around him

[Doggysigj]

Thanks. We don’t get many chances too but maybe I can ask him random stuff or say random stuff when I run into him.

[WhitneySnow]

@Doggysigj good idea!

[Doggysigj]

Cheers

[In_Trance]

I definitely don't think you're 67

[HДLILБΞУ]

listen to music don't worry