I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to wait a while before meeting him. In fact, I think it's a good idea. There are some weird people on dating sites and I think it's a good idea to spend time getting to know them online before meeting in person. And the first meeting should always be in a public place.
I'm a little concerned that he's pushing so hard to meet you right away. That makes me doubt whether he's really interested in you as a person or just wants sex. My opinion is that you should tell him you want to chat online for a while longer yet before meeting and if he seems upset by that or keeps pushing you, then you probably don't want to be with him anyway. A decent guy will be willing to wait a while until you're feeling comfortable.
Just tell him then. Don't lead him on. If you MAYBE want to meet eventually, then keep the door open. But it's okay, he would be nervous to meet too, even if he wants to. Just keep that in mind. Remember that he's a real living person with feelings too, and if he wants to meet that's cool but if you're not into the idea yet then you should tell him. And you should tell him it's because you're just nervous right now. Don't say crap like "oh I'm sick right now" or something because that'll give him the wrong idea. Good luck.
You should. You never know who's behind the other screen. For Christ's sake it could a serial killer or a 49 year old porn addict with a beer belly. If you want to meet him wait after you know him well online first and video chat with him. Not everyone out here is a good person.
just tell him about it, if he's a good guy, he will understand your choice. more than that, you're so lucky that you have a chance to meet him, for me, the boy i met online are so far away from me, so our relationship won't work. i hope you take a right choice :)
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If you keep delaying then yeah he's gonna wonder why and you need to tell him that... I'd be kinda nervous to meet someone online too because u never know what to expect like they could be a totally different person... but as long as you like him then I think you should try it.
I would. Communication is always important. I’ve gone on dates where the woman didn’t express her true intentions and never told me if she was nervous.
If she said she was nervous, then I’d just tell her “it’s okay we all get like that sometimes when we meet someone new. There’s nothing to worry about. See you at 3! “
When im meeting someone i tell my bros and they hype me up every time before i go meet them then i meet em then like i already put myself in that situation so i make the most of it haha so you should try it lol it really helped me gain confidence in myself
thats totally fine. If I was him i would offer to bring another friend or to meet at a really public place. Its good to be sceptical
If you have only known him for a week it's perfectly normal to say that it's too soon ajd that your not ready. If he likes you then he will understand. It's not rude or anything, so don't worry about that. Good Luck!
No, tell him, so he understand why you don't want to meet him yet. And if you decide to meet him, meet him in a crowded area, where there are always people. That way you'll know you have nothing to fear.
Don't be in soo rush to meet him. Take your time. It's just a week. First are you comfortable with him while talking? Because initially it's more like attractive rather than anything. So take your time. Don't jump to conclusion and please don't be shy person. You will not die if you will come out of your comfort zone. That's where life begins!
Totally ok to be honest and upfront- most guys will actually respect that. If you are still nervous about meeting just go to a public place for a first date.
WE don't worry about what others think
we DO pay attention to clues/feelings/concerns intended to PROTECT us
and honor those who respect all that
NOT those that have NO history to judge if they are our protectors or NOT
Don't use online dating if you're not going to meet people. Just give up on love and become an asexual. No point in wasting time on the internet with a virtual life and no real life.
First of all do you think that you want to meet him
Means if it's only nervousness or somewhere you don't wish to meet him
That's very important thing
Just tell him.
Be honest always.
Play a game with a gay and his lion instincts start. Then it's a losing venture for you.
Well, the reason he is in such a hurry to meet up is because he wants the pink taco... so it's up to you.
Telll him whatever you are comfortable telling. Him it will help you nervousness and shyness go away
Meeting people online is usually not a good idea. But, chance meetings do happen. Answer: Yes!
Oh. Not an issue. For my opinion you should tell him that you are not ready. I am sure he will understand
You and every other woman online is shy. Trust me. The amount of times I've heard that exact line is excessive. Communication is key. Tell him directly what you're thinking and feeling.
Don't need to worry just meet him and have fun, so that yu can get some expirence for next date den yu will get to know wt to do not wt nt do in next time
Tell him something or take action because he’ll assume your not interested.
Absolutely, try to level with him by describing how u r and how u feel , then he is gonna understand it if u act in a weird way cuz of being nervous
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