How should I tell her I like her? Last day of school soon XD

[Anonymous]

So I think this shy girl knows I like her, and suspect that she might like me. She is always tense around me, but when she talks to our mutual guy friend she is always a lot more relaxed. Once she got so tense she just stared back after I asked her a simple question. Her friends answered for her. Some days she initiates, and other days she ignores me. She was always really exited when I said hello when I saw her, but since I asked if she wanted to hang out (she said she would only do so if other girl(s) came) she is just really nervous when I say hello.

Should I tell her? If so, how should I go about it? I don't want her to run off embarrassed and continue to get more nervous, so I was thinking a text might be okay...

[alonely]

It's possible that she likes you. It's possible that she's uncomfortable with the possibility that you like her.

My advice: Talk to her directly. Catch her after a class, or offer to walk her out to her car from a group thing or something. Get her alone, ask if you can have 30 seconds of her time, that you want to talk to her for a minute. Then try to blurt it out with as little more awkwardness than you planned. In the spur of the moment, you won't be able to get out a poem or anything, but try for more eloquent than "Me like you. You date me?" cave grunt. If she doesn't answer, tell her that you don't need to know right away, that she can have time to think about it, and that you'll talk to her later.

And that's it. Either she'll say yes, and you guys go off into the sunset, she says no, and you let it go easily, or she says no and things get awkward. If she doesn't like you, try to back off for a few days, and then ease back into "just friendship" a few days later.

[Anonymous]

If she is very shy, it is maybe best for both of you that you text her and tell her how you feel, if she feels the same way, ask if she wants to go out with you. But you HAVE TO tell her how you feel! I'm shy too, and sometimes I ignore my crush, which is not good, because he might think that I don't like him, but I really do. So TELL HER how you feel! :) Good look!

And what are some good signs to show a boy that you like him? And without being desperate and making a fool out of myself?

[Anonymous]

There are a few ways of going about telling a girl you like her. You could do what I did and say "do you think I like you"? and make it into a question. It gets her to want to reply to you but you're not asking if she likes you, you're making her think a little bit and I think girls like guys who can make them think...

The most direct way, but the scariest way is to just say "I like you". and hope that she feels the same way.

Don't just come out and say it though...lead up to it with small talk before hand.

Another way you could tell her, is by showing her! You could go the route of trying to kiss her buttttt you never know if she'll call sexual abuse on you or not. The only way to gauge if she wants you to kiss her is if you ever catch her staring at your lips while you're talking.

Good luck!

[Asker]

Where do I go from "do you think I like you"? after she responds?

[Opinion Owner]

You hope that she replies, and says she feels the same...then you just go from there

[Anonymous]

Just approach her, and tell her.

Something like, "All this year, I've been attracted to you" Then you can continue from there.