What if a lot of my issues with men is that they don’t like me?[?

[Juytrd]

Like I secretly like them but I get butt hurt they don’t express enough of the same and don’t pursue me sensibly etc. lmfao I just keep thinking this epiphany. Maybe it’s true or somewhat true.

I’m starting to think that if you like someone , you have to view your interpretations of interactions and their actions with a different lens because naturally you might interpret things differently than they really are.

[ProbablyClueless]

Having feelings for someone definitely colors your interpretation of their actions. People take things more personally when they see their behavior through that lens.

Anyway... all of this to say that unequal effort and expectations lead to a lot of frustration and heartache.

[genericname85]

well you're creating a self fullfilling prophecy. if you treat men as if they don't like you enough, they won't like you enough.

[Abbycado]

God, isn’t this like the third or fourth account of the day?

[Nikki1989]

I have reported 3 in the last hour from this spammer.

[Abbycado]

Ffs.

[DryGermanGuy]

Get professional help, you eternal weirdo.

[Nikki1989]

Another account?

[HoldingtheSword]

You are 94 years old, you should know that