Is it weird or wrong to ask a guy to hook up with you?

[Anonymous]

For some context there’s this guy, and we have somewhat of a history. He had been wanting to sleep with me for a while, but I always said no because I had feelings for him at the time. However, I don’t feel that way anymore. Would it be weird if I asked if he’s still up for it?

I’m 17 by the way

[northerngal]

Not at all in my opinion. However you will have to communicate with him why things have changed.

[jahaims]

Have some self respect

[Asker]

I’m not even upset, you’re right! I’m glad I realized that before doing anything impulsively

[Anonymous]

No it's not, most guys would like that.

[Asker]

Is it better not to act on it if you’re unsure you’ll catch feelings?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, you're right about that.

[Wise4myage]

I think it’s fine.

[zombiewoof]

It should be fine

[zombiewoof]

Any more questions

[Asker]

Would you say, trust is a big thing to have before doing anything else?

[zombiewoof]

Trust is accepted at first, earned as the relationship goes on