Guys, He doesn't want to use protection?

[Unrealiseddream]

We been dating since November. I made him wait for sex until January. Once we did it he has expressed his dissatisfaction due to using protection. He says he doesn't feel as connected and sensation is reduced. I agreed to go raw IF he gets tested. He has not bothered to get tested yet, however keeps complaining. Also the testing place is 6 mins walk from his place and we have access to home testing kits. Is he hiding something or am I being paranoid? Why won't he get tested?

[Orion84]

No test = no raw

If he doesn't want to make the effort to get tested, then he has no right to complain. Period. Full stop.

He's either incredibly lazy, or he knows something you don't. I can't imagine that he's that lazy, because who wouldn't go through such a minor effort if it meant better sex.

I would be careful, because it sounds like he may have something he doesn't want you to know about, and if he does, you could be at risk. Condoms can fail, and even if they don't, they aren't 100% effective against all diseases. You could still get infected even while using them.

I would insist on the test, if I were you, or no sex of any kind, even with love glove. You have to protect your health.

[Unrealiseddream]

He has no right to complain. I love that line 😌You are so right. We have put the brakes on intimacy for now until we get this straight or he or I decide to move on.

[NicholasRedone]

Me and my girlfriend (ideally I'd only ever have one monogamous and her the same even before me and vice versa) would've agreed beforehand or spoke beforehand on "so condoms, fan or not a fan"

Had my imaginary girlfriend said not a fan, there's no second date lol 😆

[bowenw]

He's either too lazy to walk the 6 minutes, which is a red flag in itself, or may know he has an STD. The complaining is another red flag.

[Anonymous]

That means he wants to have your baby.