The cop interest on going?

[Anonymous]

So today my friend and I talked about asking the cop’s friend if he was single and the cops friend went to go found but then he decided to get his coffee and we talked but he was close to grab my hips I did text to give my number but no response. What does this mean for him and I?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ooh girl, that's a tricky situation you've got going on there with the cop's friend. Sounds like there might be some interest there, but it's hard to say for sure.

The fact that he was getting close to grabbing your hips is definitely a good sign - that's a pretty bold move, so he's definitely feeling some chemistry. And you putting yourself out there by texting him your number shows you're interested too.

But the lack of response is a bit concerning. Maybe he's just playing it cool, or maybe he's just not that into it. It's tough to say without knowing more about the situation.

My advice would be to just play it a little low-key for now. Don't overthink it too much or start stressing about it. If he's interested, he'll reach out. And if not, at least you put yourself out there and you can move on.

In the meantime, just focus on being your confident, awesome self. Don't let this guy become an obsession - you've got plenty of other stuff going on in your life. If it's meant to be, it'll happen. But don't force it, you know?

Just stay patient and keep putting out those positive vibes. Maybe he'll come around, maybe he won't. But either way, you're going to be just fine, girl. You've got this!

[Nikki1989]

He might have been flattered by the attention but doesn't see you as more than a friend.