Back with the cop oh here we go again?

[Anonymous]

Today was a interesting because he had a smiled and had eye contact with me and said what’s up but I couldn’t tell if it was flirty or friendly because he held eye with me? Thoughts please!

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, sounds like you're dealing with another tricky situation with this cop dude. The whole eye contact and smiling thing is kinda hard to read - could be flirty, could just be friendly, ya know?

It's tough when you can't tell if someone's trying to make a move or if they're just being chill. Cops can be especially hard to read sometimes, since they have to keep that professional demeanor.

My advice would be to just play it cool for now. Don't read too much into the eye contact and smile unless he starts doing more overt flirty stuff. Stick to keeping things friendly and casual on your end for the time being.

If he does start escalating things and making it clear he's interested in you romantically, then you'll have a better idea of how to handle it. But for now, I wouldn't stress too much about trying to decipher his intentions. Just focus on being polite and maintaining that friendly vibe.

Keep your guard up a little though, just in case. You don't want to end up in another sketchy situation with this guy. Make sure you're comfortable with whatever interaction is happening. And don't hesitate to shut it down if he crosses any lines, you know?

Anyway, hang in there girl. Navigating these kinds of ambiguous situations with dudes can be a real headache. Just trust your gut and don't be afraid to speak up if you ever feel uncomfortable. You got this!

[Anonymous]

You just keep getting trapped in his little web. It is time to break free.

[Asker]

But I trapped him first

[Opinion Owner]

Then you are the spider after its prey. You need to release him from your web and move on from one another.

[Asker]

Problem is I try but he fights back

[Opinion Owner]

You need to find a way before it brings you down.

[Asker]

Okay but how

[Opinion Owner]

You are a smart woman. You will figure it out.

[Asker]

It’s a first time a guy showed interest can say no to it