Holding super tight when cuddling?

[Anonymous]

Me and this guy have been dating and we cuddled but he holds me super tight when cuddling , to the point it’s uncomfortable. I’m laying on his chest and it’s like he holds me down with his arms. It’s kindove weird and it’s almost like he doesn’t want to let me go. Is this a red flag?

[SueShe]

If it is uncomfortable for you, if you feel that he is smothering you, then you have to tell him because you should not feel anxious or scared being in the company of your boyfriend.

The problem is that nowadays, people don't talk with each other anymore and prefer to ask total strangers for advice.

Yes, it is a red flag because if you don't say anything, he is going to believe that you like it and continue. This may cause friction in the relationship because if he finds out later that you dislike it, he will wonder why you did not say it earlier.

This is a sign of dominance and nobody should dominate the other partner in a relationship. This is a very unhealthy situation.

[SueShe]

thanks for the MHO

[KITEinStorm]

Some girls are not bothered by this and even enjoy it. They are happy to feel the man's power.

But if you don't like it, could you be a little nicer and say it hurts me. You can't redflag this. If there is no other problem, you need to communicate and ask for polite behavior, do not hesitate.

[harris2107]

If you are liking it. Leave it orelse tell him

[Nikki1989]

Is he hurting you?

[In_Trance]

You tell us