Guys, why would a guy talk to you every day if he doesn’t wanna be around you?

[Anonymous]

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1 y

About 7 months but hasn’t seen me in 6

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1 y

He said I’m bat shit crazy and always says he’s busy

[lightbulb27]

There is more to the puzzle to amswer that.


Girls are needy and demanding of time early and for wgatever reason when pushed for more, probably attacks you for space. Hea flipping the script? But he does need something from you.

[Summeroflove]

He’s bored and wants someone to talk to. He’s playing games with toir emotions to tear you down but he also wants you feeding his ego. Pathetic power plays by pathetic narcissistic people.

It’s best to tell him “if you don’t like me we shouldn’t talk” and if he won’t leave you alone block him. You need people who aren’t toxic and someone whose mentally healthy wouldn’t be playing games like that anyways so he’s projecting who he is.

[OneViewpoint]

Ummm...

Because you work in the same office and he's being polite and sociable.

Because he likes you well enough but doesn't see you as romantic material.

Because you're part of the friend group and he doesn't want to make waves.

Because he wants to date you but he's timid as hell when it comes to making his move.

Because he thinks you're in a relationship or hot for someone else.

Because... oh, just ask him.

[Anonymous]

I'd guess that this level of communication is enough for him. He doesn't need more or he doesn't want to prioritise it higher than it already is.

[Anonymous]

So you're saying he wants to talk to you but doesn't want to spend any valuable time with you

[Asker]

Yes that’s what I’m saying

[Opinion Owner]

How long have you known this person

[Opinion Owner]

What makes him not want to come around is he working or busy doing other things

[Asker]

He said I’m bat shit crazy and pyscho

[Asker]

And that he’s busy and going through a lot

[Opinion Owner]

That's no excuse if he's not going to make time you need to get out

[OneViewpoint]

So he's told you why he's not spending time with you. What are you looking for here?

[red324]

Girls do this all the time. No intention whatsoever of meeting up.

[Regular_Normal_Guy]

Maybe he's shy? I don't know

[TonyMetal___86]

Maybe just for fun and to pass time

[MaxW1]

i have no idea, perhaps too little context

[GODBODY954]

Probably he has no one to talk to

[ienjoylookingatgreen]

he's on his period