Why would a guy ask me to marry him in front of his family? then months later saves secret screenshots of his naked ex, and other random women?

[Madymadu]

[Anonymous]

Because he still beats off to her pics. He may not like her like he used to, but he still finds her sexually appealing. Men have that ability to not invite me emotions when banging a girl. It’s strictly physical. Some men can hate women but still fuck them. Like Kim Kardashian. A lot of men hate her, but they’d still beat that ass. It would be what you’d call a hate fuck. Does it bother you that it’s her? Or would it be just as bad if it was some online naked pics of a curvy girl?

[Joshydavid25]

He was most likely being performative for his family, and letting them know he wants to be with you. Unfortunately he also probably kept those pics to get off to when you're not around..

[Madymadu]

I dont know what to feel anymore apart from shame , am i going crazy? Cuz my mind is racing right now! Among those pictures, there is one of a very very young girl, a kid basically! Taken from an account of kids athlete ,

[Joshydavid25]

A very young girl named girl? 😲.. Yeah, you might have to call off that engagement then.. Your boys seems like a pervert.. I mean unless you mean a kid as in 18 or something.. Even then he's still a pervert..

[Madymadu]

I need to do something about this, my brain is boiling right now of rage, shame, fear and all sorts, cuz i feel there r more underlying things ab it! This is not a normal! I had to check the profile again cuz nowadays with all this weird shit online, u dont know if a woman poses as a kid or not! But that little girl is a kid def ab 12 year old! I feel like i want to batter him, but im only a woman, i can't! Why tho, i dont get it! Thank you for ur answer, i was looking to talk to someone!

[Joshydavid25]

I meant a very young naked girl**.. But yeah you'll definitely have to watch out for that.. Probably call off the engagement and if there's more maybe take some legal action.. If you are comfortable, maybe talk to him about it as well..

[DishLady]

Wow! He’s just odd. Honestly if that’s really happening I’m sorry and hope you’re ok, but would advise you not to go further with this guy. He’s a total creep.

[Madymadu]

I actually cannot sleep now, i feel nauseous to go sleep next to him, im on sofa, tomorrow i have to b at work at 06:00 am, and can't sleep! I feel like if i had the power, i would slap him so hard that will knock him out! Feel like i want to b single forever, i stop trying now at 32! I dont get it

[DishLady]

No need to stop trying. I'm in my 50s and still kicking. Guys aren't all like this.

[LiamS95]

Not if he truly loved you and was committed to you and you only.

[bowenw]

He may have a porn addiction or be into things like child porn. I suggest you try to dig deeper into what he is up to.

[Anonymous]

All men look at women in this nature. Just marry him and he will treat you right.