Hi! My boyfriend is 28 and I’m a little bothered by him liking naked women on instagram and I’d like your thoughts and opinions as a man?

[Anonymous]

So he is 28 and I am 24 and had seen he liked a video of a girl shaking her ass on instagram and I have told him watching it is normal because men will ALWAYS look but I think liking it is a bit rude but last night I brought it up and he said he likes everything which I know isn’t true but I don’t know if I should be bothered by him liking this or not? He doesn’t know her and had asked me who the girl was when I brought it up and then said he doesn’t know but he likes everything. I kind of steered our convo and let that go until I can get some opinions on to talk about it or just let it go on my end

[Anonymous]

Pretty much all men are going to look. Even the ones who tell their girl they don’t. I think it’s just man’s nature. Now going beyond that as far as liking other women’s videos who are half naked, that’s something else. I don’t think you’ll ever find a man who doesn’t look at other women. I’ve been w my girl for 17 years. Never cheated on her unless you consorting looking at other women cheating. But I’ve never went as far as liking their videos or subscribing to their social media. I keep it to myself. Doesn’t mean I love her any less. She has my heart. But yes I look. It just happens. I don’t go around intentionally doing that. To me making it known right in front of you is disrespectful.

[Summeroflove]

You have a right to feel that way emotionally cheating often times leads to the real thing if it has not already happened. He’s with you he should be wanting to be with you if you were liking naked men that would be a issue too.

[Joshydavid25]

It's completely reasonable to be upset over something like that.. He's entertaining and actively lusting after other women.. Those are the type of actions that lead to cheating.. If he entertains it long enough..

[HungTexan]

Looking is fine. It’s not cheating. If it goes too far it’s a problem. Talk to him about it. And be as sexy as you can around him.

[nicfire171]

You should be bothered! It’s not cool. All his sexual attention should be towards you

[Anonymous]

Dump him ASAP. Social media is cancer.

[AaaAviii123]

That’s kind of a red flag babes.