Why do you guys love when a girl sleeps on you?

Question

We were watching a movie and I fell asleep while laying in his lap and I think I slept funnily, he hasn’t moved at all, allowing me to sleep as much as I wanted, later he told me “I loved having you sleeping on me 🥰”.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Because being close to a girl we admire and care about that we are really attracted to , is nice knowing she feels close and comfortable with us as well. Most men are natural protectors, when we give our heart to a girl , our natural instincts is to protect her and to make her feel safe , so a lot of us love when she feels safe and secure in our arms. We feel blessed to have a beautiful girl wanting us the same way we want her. When I fall in love with a girl , I want her by my side as much as possible , especially in bed , if she isn’t beside me in bed? I will have a hard time sleeping cuz I am worried about her and missing her and wishing she was beside me. Why I hated traveling for work when I was married , I missed my wife like crazy. So if you are dating a guy that doesn’t miss you , that doesn’t want to be close to you as much as possible , that doesn’t make you his priority , you are probably best to reconsider that relationship cuz he doesn’t truly love you , he just likes the convenience of you.

Cormac995 · Accepted Answer

Are you seriosly asking why a guy likes cuddling? Why do you like cuddling? It's pretty obvious but to go into deeper detail it probably made him feel like you trust him and feel comfortable and loving around him. It's physical intimacy just like a hug or a kiss of course he likes it.

fartingspinster · Accepted Answer

This guy might be a cat guy lol
But generally speaking, I think when a girl is asleep its quite vulnerable and he gets to see you in a different light. He doesn't want to disturb you when you look so peaceful. And the fact that you are sleeping in his lap and he's part of the reason why you look so peaceful is a special moment. I'm sure he really enjoyed both the physical touch of the girl he likes and the peaceful/vulnerable vibes that dont normally occur in a normal hang out session.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

There's a nice feeling about the "feminine weight" on/around them that guys find comforting and soft. Similar for gals with having "male weight" on/around them that's comforting and protective.

ddoug8161 · Answer

It is probably for similar reasons that I could allow a female friend to sit on my lap.

The comfort behind these actions is the weight pressing down on the legs. The other reason is to lay on someone's lap while they're asleep, they're letting out a vulnerable side of themselves meaning they trust you enough.

I think in this situation, he got super comfortable and just naturally fell asleep. But to do it and not think twice means he feels a strong level of comfort in your presence. So embrace it.

Jefftheduck · Answer

When my new girlfriend sleep on me it’s comfortable it makes me feel loved it’s intimate and when you really love someone it’s one of the best feelings in the world to have your favorite person in the universe snuggling and nuzzling you feeling safe with you

Communicationisking · Answer

It is just so nice when your partner is all cuddled up on you. It is so nice you stay there as long as you can even if you need to go to the toilet you wait until the last minute because you don't want to disturb them.

I have talked about this with my girlfriend and she loves it when I fall asleep on her too.

Do you or would you feel good if he fell asleep on you?

littlekat · Answer

when they care about you trusting them , they like it. Not all of them do. when we are asleep , naturaly our guard is down. So in a way you are trusting him with your safety at that moment. Which translates to you saying you trust him to protect you in a way he knows you are not lying

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Do not generalize, please.

As for me: I tolerate her position when she feels good. Of course. Because she feels good - simple.

But when I need to get me another beer, while motching a woovie my love is challenged.

:)

If I'd watch movies, that is.

I don't.

Funny (and right now)...

my girl-dog snuggles up with me on the couch. And I did indeed get me the next beer right now.

Dog did not complain. I returned. We continue cuddling :D

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

My ex did the same which was crazy because he didn’t love me, he’d let me fall asleep on his lap in the living room (he’d wake me up for head after I napped though) and he’d let/want to cuddle all night. I had never slept with someone who literally wanted to hug the whole night and would wake up to kiss me /stroke my hair randomly through the night.

AReyMarz · Answer

Its a sign we’re doing something right. We’re making you comfortable enough to fall asleep, as a guy it means a lot to know you trust us like that. Simply put, it’s endearing.

AviatorTom · Answer

Her falling asleep with her head on my lap is nice. It shows she is comfortable with me and trusts me. I don't want her whole body falling asleep on me though, that's too heavy, no matter how light she is.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Pretty sure that’s the closest any one human can come to inner peace and fulfillment

Purpleronnie · Answer

I don’t love it , falling asleep on me is one thing and not just any girl, but actually sleeping on me nah , that’s just uncomfortable.

AyChingao · Answer

Must be lurrrrve, I try not to move if the dog is asleep with her head on my lap... pretty high standard right there

sawno · Answer

Its intimate and loving, having you sleep on our chest is both physical affection as well aa a sign you feel completely at peace.

MemeSupreme · Answer

i don't get it bc i'm boney  literally cuddling with me is like cuddling with the corner of a table

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

My husband says its cute and that it shows I trust him and feel safe around him

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Physical closeness and intimacy. It's nice to know that she feels that comfortable around me.

mattthefatbat · Answer

The most comforting and warmest blanket is your girlfriend.

NicholasRedone · Answer

@lafemmefatale_1 a keeper lol - you two lovebirds 🐦🐦

Ladsin2 · Answer

Aren't you a dude? It's nice being in close proximity with an attractive woman. I can't think of many ways to be closer to a woman than her sleeping on top of you.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

I don’t mind, but I wouldn’t say I love it. It’s like having a cat on you. You feel guilty about disturbing it. If it’s after an orgasm and I’ve already nutted, I’m a lot better with it.

Anonymous · Answer

It's about feeling protective, connected, and valued when someone trusts you enough to fall asleep on you.

Shiprex · Answer

It makes us feel responsible for her comfort and it is physical touch, a man's love language.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Because it's cute really honestly and it can feel nice..

Lokiion · Answer

Has them feel like you really trust them and are really comfortable around them it’s also comfortable for the guy

Staximus · Answer

Yeah but one time I tried that with this big tall girl and it was like Godzilla was laying on top of me haha

DrPepper12 · Answer

Lap is fine. When the blood stopped circulating to my arm 40 minutes ago is less 😎

RingOfFire · Answer

It's great! Until you can't feel your arm anymore. 🥶

Yannae · Answer

Because it's that feminine side coming out. Women want to be cared for. And she chose me.

Wise4myage · Answer

Well, it can be really hot if both people are naked.

msc545 · Answer

Like many men, he will do and say anything to get you to let him fuck you. Stop taking this stuff so seriously.

Jessie1103 · Answer

cuddling with someone make you feel safe.

Anonymous · Answer

I love that it feels like I'm a safe place for her. 4 minutes later various places go numb, I'm sweaty, and her hair makes me itchy. Don't love that.

Manuelwe · Answer

I live the feel of her breast. Her warm breath on your skin. But love to sleep on women legs. But bot when they break wind thoigj

FenixG45 · Answer

I think it's a guy's need to 'protect' her. Maybe analogous to the feeling a mother has of her baby sleeping on her.

Anonymous · Answer

It's a sign of trust that he doesn't want to break. And a sleeping girl is never softer or warmer.

NathanDavis · Answer

best pillow ever...

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Usually the only time I can get a word in

Shortkay4568 · Answer

Wake him up by sucking him.

oldpigg · Answer

I don't like it, only simps like that.

Alex-Snow · Answer

It is fun to cuddle and hug

Anonymous · Answer

Guys love cuddling if they really like you

blackeagle007 · Answer

A cute woman cuddling with me is great ❤️

fish5505_87 · Answer

Yes, it's awesome when that happens.

MikeRJ · Answer

I don't like anybody on top off me.

PeterLegg91 · Answer

Keeps us warm and makes us feel wanted and loved

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I just love that connection that bond

Anonymous · Answer

Because lots of guys like girl on top ;)

katiesmuff · Answer

It's comfy!

Anonymous · Answer

YOUR guy likes it, but NOT every guy does.

In_Trance · Answer

we really dont

JohnnyBGood2U · Answer

I like it.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Good

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