Is he interested or still looking?

[Anonymous]

The guy i like it seems like he maybe keeping his options open and i didn’t know. So i texted him and asked “ if you weren’t looking for anything serious then why did you let me come over repeatedly for “ and he said “who said i wasn’t”

[trumpetplayerforlife]

I think your over thinking and you two need fo to sit down and outline things

[Asker]

Overthinking how

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Have you out lined tour relationship if your not committed then they can do as they please

[Asker]

But we have sex i always text and call him i cuddle and hold him.. does that not mean nothing to him

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Not always some men can just use you I'm not saying that's what he's doing but if you don't clarify that you both won't sleep or go on dates with other people he and you can see other people til you both agree to only see each other

[trumpetplayerforlife]

I mean when I first started seeing my man I made it clear that I was still seeing and going on dates with other men so he didn't get lead on but most people don't clarify

[Asker]

He might be using me then

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Don't assume communicate with him and ask no one knows til they ask

[Anonymous]

He is looking but still has interest in you as well.

[Asker]

Ok gotcha