Why would he tell me this? And how do I get him to stop?

[trumpetplayerforlife]

I'm a parts advisor in a dealership my male coworker has told me on multiple different occasions that he stares at my boobs for example he told me one day that when I pulled my pants up that my boobs giggled and he was looking he's also admits that he likes when I wear tank tops because they slide down and then my chest shows a bit.. I've tried to avoid clothes that show off my body but I've never had someone confess that they stare... mind you his fiance works in the same department as us and my husband works in the shop as a diesel tech

Keep in mind I don't care when the techs say things like nice jugs when I hand then coolant or def or say inappropriate jokes and stuff because that's just what happens in a shop but what he's doing and saying isn't just disrespectful to my husband but to his fiance

[Red_Arrow]

You probably would not know that he stares at your boobs if he had not told you. Anyway, tell him that you do not want him to tell you that, or if his staring bothers you tell him to stop staring at them. If he continues causing you grief, tell a supervisor or his fiance.

[bowenw]

It is disrespectful. I suggest you tell him to make any comments about your body. If he does not comply, you may have to report him to the owner.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[HungTexan]

You might ask him to stop, that it makes you uncomfortable and that is disrespectful to his fiancée.

[grungeberry]

Report to HR? Tell him to keep those thoughts to himself or to not look?

[grungeberry]

He thinks telling you that will make you want to have secret sex with him, I guess.

[DryGermanGuy]

Having a girl to girl talk with his fiancé might be the most effective way.

[QuestionObsession]

It is simple - he gets off on telling you. It is the most he can do because you both are married. If you find it disrespectful, you could tell on him and do the right thing.

[Nahid1707]

You mention you are proud of your natural bigger boobs.
Do you have a role model or a celebrity role model who you see as a inspiration?
Example Sydney

[Ironco]

Go to HR and report it.

You don't have to put up with that.

[Anonymous]

Either the you husband or his fiancée, whichever is more likely to slap him

[NathanDavis]

call the police on him

[oswaldcobblepot]

How do breast giggle?

[scott04sa22]

Never sleep with coworkers

[GAGsucksballs89170]

Should never date/marry coworkers, BAD IDEA

[CubaPirate]

Report him to HR

[DishLady]

Report him to HR.