How do you find out if a guy is playing you?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

To catch a player/ cheater can take some time and patience , but it’s not impossible to do. Guys’ and Girls’ can be players and sometimes they are good at it and it can be hard to catch them red handed. So the signs to look out for , can only be done by your own experiences with this person. If you notice a sudden change in their behavior or actions towards you , that’s a good clue to start with , that can help you catch them red handed. Ask yourself these questions,? Do they make you a top priority in their lives , like they did before in the beginning of the relationship? , or is something else more of a priority to them instead? Do they always make excuses when answering a question about your relationship together? Do they barely ever admit they were wrong and seem to be always have to be right? Do they all of a sudden have friends’ that they prioritize over you and all of a sudden making plans with their friends’ without including you? Never stay in a relationship with someone that doesn’t make you their top priority , if they treat you like a convenience , then you are their convenience, Do they call you or text You on a daily basis and try to see you as much as possible? or do they always have other things going on that eliminates their time with you , always having an excuse as to why they can’t spend time with you. Also see how their friends’ act when they are around you , if their friends’ we’re always nice and polite and respectful to you but they no longer treat you that way now? Then that can be a sign that they know something is going on but they aren’t opening their mouths about it. Also to catch a player/ cheater , you can’t let them know you are onto them , act like everything is fine like it was before , because once they know you are onto them , they will cover their tracks even more , making it harder for you to bust them. So act like you don’t know shit about what’s going on. If you need anymore advice please feel free to inbox me , I have busted players and cheaters a bunch of times to the point I am wiser about who i date or end up in a relationship with. Once you learn these tricks , you will become a pro at catching selfish liars and players and cheaters.

[Blunky]

Consistency. When the focus is no longer on you when you're spending time together, big red flag.

[Anonymous]

Some players are very good at it… time will only tell you… from my experience they act like they want to know you and want to get “close “ to you but they don’t want you to know about them or they don’t tell you a lot about them..

They start off strong then it dies down.. the text goes from minutes, to hours to days..

They give you enough motion just to keep you around and keep you guessing..

Thats why keeping sex out the mix is powerful.. but unfortunately some expert players will wait… there’s a lot of wolves in sheep’s clothing. Trust me I know

[Anonymous]

They’re forgetful about conversations you remember vividly or keep thinking you spoke about something you’ve never discussed. Send you the same selfie twice etc.

[Anonymous]

It is not easy to spot the signs of whether one is being played or not.

[dustybiker2]

You'll only learn when it unravels.

[Ladsin2]

After I notice my wallet is gone.