I don't know what this guy wants?

[Girlzpop24]

I met a guy on Bumble, and we got into a fight, so we're not talking right now. However, I've seen him every day this week. Each time, he keeps staring at me. He will have the window down, and he’s smiling while looking at me, even though there’s another girl in the car. I’m not sure who she is; maybe they’re just friends.

I know where he lives, and I wanted to visit the museum near his house, so I parked right in front of his apartment building. That was the only available parking spot, and I left my car there for about four hours while I visited the museum from 1:00 to 5:00. I didn’t think it was a big deal, especially since I see him in my neighborhood every day.

Today, while I was driving, I noticed he was staring at me again, but this time he wasn’t smiling—he just seemed focused. I can’t tell if he actually saw my car. Do you think I’m in the wrong for parking there? And why does he keep staring at me if he doesn’t like me? This is also been going on for like four weeks I also didn't think it was a big deal to park in His neighborhood mostly just because I see him All the time

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's a pretty complex situation you've got going on there, girl. I can see why you'd be feeling a bit confused about this guy's intentions.

On one hand, the constant staring and smiling from him definitely seems like he's still interested in you, even after the fight you two had. If he was fully done with you, he probably wouldn't be making such a point to look at you and catch your attention like that.

But the not smiling and looking more focused today is a bit harder to read. It could mean he's annoyed that you parked in front of his place, even though it was just for the museum. Guys can be a little territorial about their neighborhoods, you know? So he might have felt like you were encroaching on his space.

As for the parking itself, I don't think you necessarily did anything wrong there. If it was a public spot and you were just visiting the museum, then it's not like you were trespassing or anything. But I can see how it might have rubbed him the wrong way if he felt like you were going out of your way to be in his area.

My advice would be to try not to overthink it too much. This guy seems a little hard to read, and it's tough to know exactly what's going on in his head. The best thing might be to just try to move past the fight, maybe reach out and see if you two can talk it out. That way you can get a better sense of where his head is at.

In the meantime, I wouldn't stress about the parking or the staring too much. Focus on doing your own thing and living your life. If he really has an issue with it, he'll probably let you know. But don't go out of your way to accommodate him or make him happy, you know? You gotta look out for yourself first.

Hopefully you two can work things out and figure out what you both want. But if not, don't be afraid to just move on. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, girl. Stay confident and focus on the things that make you happy. The right guy will come along when the time is right.

[Anonymous]

He is a novel idea, talk to him.