You’re good hearted = you’re ugly?

[Anonymous]

i’ve recently started talking with a guy and the only compliment he has gave me so far is ” you’re very nice” , ”you have a good heart”

[Anonymous]

It means he thinks you’re a good person. If you asked him do you like me as more than a friend or how he feels about you, then he gave you that response, I’d think he was t really feeling you in that way. How many dates have you been on w him? If it’s been more than one date I’m sure he likes you in some way to continue going on dates w you. He may have not wanted to come on too strong as well.

[Hellraiser1984]

No. I'm good hearted but guys call me pu$$y for it. The fact that I have respect for women makes me a pu$$y to other guys. Maybe he really means it. Commenting on a woman's looks is a tough and touchy thing. I don't think he means yourre ugly he just may be trying get the courage up to say he finds you attractive.

[BarryLiverstone]

It could mean that., did they mention how you look?

[Asker]

Nope

[Asker]

by the way during out first date he couldn’t hold eye contact at all which I found odd

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s not the best news. Usually as guys we know that girls like compliments. So with out eyes we will describe what we see.

But you have a mirror. Who do you see? Do you appear pretty and healthy?

[BarryLiverstone]

Did he hold eye contact when you met him before your first date?

[Asker]

But why would he find so hard to look me in the eyes if it wasn’t due to nerves? I feel like I’m average

[BarryLiverstone]

He may be socially awkward. Either he’s feeling insecure or he’s not used to looking others in the eyes during normal conversations

[Asker]

It was first time we met. We started talked on online first

[BarryLiverstone]

Gotcha. So the first meeting irl wasn’t a date as much as a get to know you. Did you go on another date?

[Asker]

It was a coffee date the first time we met. He asked me out on instagram. During our date we did talk for 1,5h. During our date when we discussed our life goals we noticed we want different things. I thought maybe we could’ve discussed more about it down the line. But he didn’t want to continue to date. Reason he have was differenr future plans

[BarryLiverstone]

Ya, then the reality is he may you and wasn’t blown away how attractive you appeared in person. He wanted to be polite so he talked to you for a while and then didn’t ask you out again as he didn’t feel much of a connection.

Maybe you felt something? But that’s why he told you what he did and didn’t mention how you looked.

[Asker]

I’ve noticed that after when he’s seen me in public he has looked at me quite. Also he’s viewed my instagram stories despite not following me. I wonder why?

[Asker]

If he wasn’t attracted to me why not look at me just normally during the date?

[BarryLiverstone]

He may not want to lead you on, like on the date if he was into you he probably would have looked at you more and broken the touch barrier did he hug or kiss you?

People view online activity for things like curiosity and other reasons.

I don’t know what you look like and what he finds attractive. Gotta assume if he’s dating online he was talking to other girls at the same time right?

[Asker]

But now that we’re not talking he’s staring at me in public…

[Asker]

Also we’re muslim so it’s not ecouraged to touch opposite sex

[BarryLiverstone]

I live in Florida so it could be it’s just a different culture. On a first date if I like her I’ll hold her hand or touch her arm to see if she’s responsive and feels safe and comfortable. Maybe your culture isn’t encouraging that touch on dating?

[BarryLiverstone]

You can follow me on here , feels like we are going beyond your initial question as I’m helping you

[moneymagnet24]

No one have good heart in this days lol..
He is Dick if he didn't compliments your look lol.

[Asker]

I don't know why would guy gives those compliments?

[moneymagnet24]

To make girls feel special lol but truth everyone knows 😂

[Asker]

Does it mean he really liked me when he gives those compliments instead of superficial compliments like pretty etc?

[moneymagnet24]

Nope compliments are trap don't take them seriously

[Anonymous]

Good heart = good heart. Don't complicate it.

[wkhan_87]

No he means you are kind and wise.

[Asker]

Wise? How

[wkhan_87]

Good hearted= wise

[Asker]

Doesn’t it mean more kind or nice? Also does it mean he really liked me when he gives those compliments or he’s actually friendzoning me?