Why did I attract a married man?

[Anonymous]

Recently, I noticed that a man who's an acquaintance likes me. However, he's married and I don't want anything to do with him. What are the reasons I attracted that man? What are some reasons it may be my fault? I don't want my behavior to be misinterpreted, any comment is welcomed.

[Anonymous]

Attraction can be complex and doesn't always imply fault on your part. A married man's interest might stem from his own unmet needs or dissatisfaction within his marriage, having little to do with your actions. However, certain behaviors, even unintentional ones, like being overly friendly, flirtatious (even innocently), or seeking his attention, could be misinterpreted. It's crucial to establish clear boundaries and communicate your disinterest directly and firmly to avoid any further misunderstandings.

[Summeroflove]

Well unfortunately some people aren’t loyal and lack integrity. I’m glad that you have integrity but unfortunately some people just simply don’t. I would assume many men find you attractive but that also unfortunately means married ones. At least you know he’s married some people will withhold information like that and can even get someone killed.

Keep your distance and be very blunt if he says or does anything overt.

[Anonymous]

Your reasonably attractive and he wants to smash your backdoor in and he believes by your reputation he has a shot.

[Anonymous]

He probably has no morals and is addicted to sex

[OneViewpoint]

It may be 0% your fault. It could be wrong place wrong time and your path crossed with an asshole. If you did the right thing, friendly, polite, but not leading him on, and he was looking for something that wasn't there. It's his problem. If that's the case, be at peace with the fact that you can't control everything. Move on.

[Anonymous]

Couldn’t really say. No one here knows you personally to know how you act in public so we couldn’t say for sure what you did or didn’t do to attract this men. If a girl is cute she doesn’t have to do much to attract men. It could also be that there’s some sort of vibe you give off as far as having daddy issues. Like a girl who is used to being in an abusive relationship. She doesn’t go out seeking a man like that, but there’s a good chance she will end up in one.

[slatyb]

Because you are attractive. You have nothing wrong, so nothing is your fault.

[Danny_dan92]

Because you are what his wife isn’t.




And the same thing would happen to you after some time in the event you end up together

[RedInnocent69]

Because you’re attractive. Men don’t care that they’re married

[PaleDale]

We can always have attraction towards someone, no matter if they're married or not.

[itsannalee]

Maybe you have daddy issues

[Anonymous]

Married men are the worst.

[jahaims]

You attract cheaters