Why do I only attract married men?

[Anonymous]

I am 24 years old, single and work in a large city hospital. It seems like every man who shows interest in me and who I build some rapport with end up being married. Many male doctors do not wear wedding bands and I only ever find out that they are married through other people.

Even after I distance myself from them I find them starring at me constantly. Other people have noticed this staring and have commented on it.

I dress conservatively, but is it possible that I ooze some home-wrecker vibe?

[Reeses-pieces777]

I know that feeling. I had my manager recently hit on me and he was married with a kid my age so it totally creeped me out. I had to quit my job.

that's good you distance yourself. isn't it a form of harrassment if they're staring at you?

[Littletad]

It seems your attractive, especially to your male co-workers. My suggestion is to just ignore them, since they are married and have no shame. How sad for their wives.