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Why Do I Attract Married Men And Why Am I Attracted To Them?

Melisserian
So I met this much older man and we started talking. Straight off the bat we are having a bunch of fun and vibing… we talked all day everyday constantly but after just 3 days he says “I hope you will fall in love with me”.

He is also asking me if I’ve told my friends and family about him and like what we have together?

Carry on, we talk like everyday and one night he texts that he is not gonna be as available in the coming weeks cause he is going to fly out of state to be with his family! I was shocked and told him so big in his defense he was like “ I told you this in the beginning when we started talking”.

I read through our conversations multiple times and no family was ever ever mentioned. Fast forward he texts me that he misses me and all that but also has a fixation with LOVE. He keeps saying stuff like: I thought you loved me, is it hard to admit that you love me, you have to love me!

I finally told my friend and I tried “to cut things off with him” even though I personally feel very bad cause I do truly believe that we have a connection and maybe things are not gonna last forever but still…

He was very excited when I told him that I had told my friends but as soon as I said that they had bad reactions he concluded that they were jealous, and didn’t really want my best…

Sooo... I do want to cut things off with him but I’ve gotten so used to talking to him and giggling and shit and I don’t know what to do.

Unfortunately this is not the first time a married man approaches me and even though I know it’s wrong they just have a way of talking themselves through me cause to be honest I have no problem to admit that I have fallen for this man.
Why Do I Attract Married Men And Why Am I Attracted To Them?
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