Why are women attracted to violent and dangerous men?

[Anonymous]

Unlike men, women have an abundance of choices to choose from and often gravitate towards men who are violent and dangerous. In contrast, men often attach themselves to shitty women due to lack of choices and desperation.

Take for example this news story in which a 35 y/o woman with a child thought it was a good idea to remarry a known rapist who served 17 years in jail and was on trial for sending sexually explicit pictures to a 16 year old girl while behind bars. She was rewarded with this man not only killing her and her daughter (13) but he went on to kill 3 other teenagers who happen to be in the house during a sleepover. He then separated the bodies into 2 groups and dumped them in two separate locations close to their home.

Mom, her daughter and 3 teens killed by the child rapist/step father

Another example, War machine who is currently serving a life sentence in jail with possibility for parole in 36 years for sexual assault with a weapon and kidnapping is getting married to an attractive blonde woman. He literally has no money to his name, can't provide or take them on dates and yet these women fall for him. And this guy was known to have almost killed his ex-gf Christy Mack.

All these serial killers who mass murder and kill tons of women, all seem to have tons of women writing them love letters and wanting to be with them. Bryan Kohbergr who killed multiple college women ges tons of love letters from women while in jail.

Nicki Minaj, who is rich and famous and is seen as sexually attractive by some men chose to marry a known rapist. Another celebrity example comes in the form of Jeremy meeks who was sent to jail for armed robbery and assault with a weapon. Women were literally counting down when he was coming out of jail.

Meanwhile, we have tons of good law abiding men in society with decent jobs who can't get dates.

[ManOnFire]

You also forgot to mention how a lot of women find serial killer characters on TV/Netflix to be sexy, like the Jeffery Dommer show and that show You. Keep in mind that these are the same women who think men of violence and evil are sexy, but will foolishly perceive something innocent an average guy says to her as a threatening come-on or something to make her uncomfortable. This is a deep wickedness in the hearts of these women.

But I think I would beg to differ on your point here: "In contrast, men often attach themselves to shitty women due to lack of choices and desperation." I don't think most men do that, even ones who are not getting laid. Rather, it's much more often women to latch on to shitty men due to their own inner insecurities, self-hatred, and desperation to not be single and have the whole world know they love someone or are in a relationship.

But going back to my original paragraph, bear with me while I try to explain why so many women are as you have described, because it's not your typical answer. You may or may not be religious, or even believe in God or spirituality at all, but I will say it anyway: I personally believe that there is a deep-rooted spiritual illness in so many women to be attracted to darkness and evil. I personally believe this goes way back to the Garden when Satan first met Eve and tried to tempt her with eating the fruit. The woman had the first contact with evil, and was left with the mark of it by listening to Satan. I understand you may or may not agree with it or understand it spiritually, and that's okay, I'm just saying what I believe the root of what you're describing lies in.

It's one thing for a guy to be violent and evil already, I'm not even excusing that or saying that all men are perfect and women aren't, but it's quite another for a woman to clearly see that a guy is violent and evil yet still want that. That is truly an inner wickedness and spiritual illness to be attracted to darkness and bad morals. You will hear women try to explain it away as an attraction to dominance, confidence, etc. but we've heard that already. Women are well aware that a man can still be dominant and confident and good and decent at the same time, but in their hearts they want what's bad, so they choose the bad men.

[inhua]

but ladies swear up and down they're not attracted to bad boys only gentlemen

then explain how Ted Bundy got away with his crimes of murdering and raping women only for men to stop him and later execute him

how does convicted felon Jeremy Meeks get a modeling job and impregnate a billionaire's daughter while cheating on her with someone else despite having a criminal record that includes weapons possession, assault, murder and other gang affiliated crimes?

why are there women petitioning for Cameron Herrin to be released from prison after he ran over a mother and daughter? is it because he's too "pretty" for prison?

even Andrew Tate got a new girlfriend after coming out of prison and he already has 5 wives (even though he couldn't be proven guilty but nonetheless prison made him more of a bad boy than he already is)

meanwhile your average Joe is going through an ugly divorce after he finds out his kids aren't his whom he has to pay child support for alongside alimony to his cheating wife and losing half his finances, assets, properties and inheritance and failure to do so is a fast way ticket towards jail while below average men are committing suicides every few minutes and nobody gives a shit about them except label them as violent, dangerous sexists/incel/ misogynists for the mere crime of existing.

but sure the gynocentric society likes to blame western men as the root cause of all the problems in western society not the inability for western women to suppress their own hypergamy

[noemiii]

Although I am not into convict type men, I do like authoritative men. I boil it down to some women like to feel completely dominated in relationships. With some men like that, their “affection” is unrelenting and intoxicating, a “if I can’t have you nobody can” mentality. Most women like this have absent or damaged father-daughter relationships, or they also have fathers like that so they are attracted to men like that. My dad was extremely authoritative.

I think it can be compared to men who dismiss a woman’s crazy red flags just because she’s hot. It’s not just a woman thing.

[PragmaticProfit]

The majority of us don't adhere to laws and social norms out of a sense of morality; instead, it's often due to fear and cowardice. Although most individuals morally disapprove of violent behavior, women tend to be drawn to those who can courageously defy norms. Essentially, women desire a man capable of such actions but within a controlled environment and for a greater purpose. They seek a disciplined and restrained "monster."

[Spongebobssocks]

I'm not sure why. Personally violent men are a major turn off for me.

If I'd guess it would have to be about a mixture of narcissim (women thinking they're the only one that can change him). And the fact that he is not scared of danger. I think these type of women lack empathy. Because they think he would be different to them evan though he has that whole evil past.

[NamerOfStars]

Because the "protect" part of "protect and provide" is genetically important, too. Remember that evolution doesn't care about you; it cares about your genes, and once your kids are old enough to reproduce themselves, you don't really matter any more. We get a little bit of leeway on the mammal front, and a bit more from the primate thing, but that's it- long-term health and happiness aren't really an issue, so far as instinct is concerned.

[Anonymous]

I don’t get it either? I work as a firefighter, and I’ve seen girls go more crazy for inmates than guys like me. A guy who’s done nothing wrong in his life, and works his ass off and risks his life every shift. But it’s whatever, I don’t think I would want a woman like that anyways.

[Hellraiser1984]

I think it's because they think that they can change him and find good in him. So yeah basically they're stupid and ignorant and are mostly going to become man haters in their 40's and teach other girls and women about the "evils" of men. God I hate modern society.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Not all of us are attracted to these type of guys. People who likes psychopaths lack therapy and love for themselves. They attract what they are.

[ManOnFire]

Yep. I think they really hate themselves.

[Anonymous]

A lot of these dumb bitches believe the man when he says " that was me... a long time ago"
Nah.

[Summeroflove]

Normal women aren’t. Usually they’re bad and dangerous women….

[Anonymous]

Dude, those women are crazy and stupid. Your better off without them.

[art84]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[In_Trance]

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