Boyfriend keeps trying to get me to start on onlyfans with him?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of 5 years with the last year keeps going on/ off asking for us to set up an only fans. Nothing against people doing it, but I’m not the type to do that. I never even done a one night stand in my life. He just mentioned it there again and I’m sick of it, all he keeps getting from me is no so why keep bringing it up. He last asked me like 2 months ago. He surely mustn’t see me as a long term partner to even be asking that? I even called his bluff and said he can make one if he wants but I won’t be apart of it, but nope he won’t do it just trying to bribe me into it as a couple. I would never in my life do it.

[SteveSmith1985]

Jesus. That's so fucked up.

I'm having trouble reconciling your boyfriend with the actions of a decent person.

I don't understand your boyfriend wanting to be on onlyfans himself (like you... I would never ever consider that for myself). I can't pretend to have a clue where he's coming from.

I do know that it is super duper messed up for any boyfriend to push his girlfriend into sex-work when it's not something she wants to do. (that is, in fact what is happening in your situation)

It's got heavy "Andrew Tate" vibes.

I'm going to hold my tongue on what I think about your boyfriend. Because i suppose I don't have enough information to make too many assumptions.

I do want to tell you that I think this is messed up in the extreme. I think that it's a huge problem if he is continuing to bring this up. I think you have every reason to be upset, and to be questioning "what you are to him" in his mind.

This is wrong.

[MannMitAntworten]

Try this tawdry approach when he brings it up again. Say yes but only if you get to wear a mask but he does not get to wear a mask and his face must appear in the footage and it is of you pegging him. If he agrees, do the video, post it, then leave him. If he disagrees, leave him anyway. Point is, the question isn’t going to stop.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Sounds like a boy and not a man I'd leave him and find yourself someone who will respect you

[sawno]

Whats that kind of pimp behavior? I'd never want to share the girl I love with the whole world especially not for money, intimacy between us would be sacred.

[Staximus]

He wants to use you as a cash cow

[Staximus]

The guy is a sack of shit

[In_Trance]

So what is your actual question

[Asker]

To even ask your girlfriend that. Does that not mean he’s no respect for me or see a future?

[In_Trance]

Well I guess that's one way of looking at it.
I guess you could also look at it in the sense that he's looking out for the both of you and wants to make as much money as possible in the short term to ensure you both have a better life.
Now is that involved showing your booty hole online for five bucks a pop...

[Anonymous]

He's a wannabe pimp