Girls, have you ever made plans to hangout with a guy but when the day came or the day got closer he ghosted out of anxiety, nervousness exc?

[Anonymous]

Did the guy have a avoidant attachment style and did he ever agree or follow through eventually, or was it a pattern and you guys just gave up on hanging out?

[Anonymous]

In the past I have only agreed to rescheduling a date if the guy had a good reason and if he followed up by offering another day and seeing it through. Otherwise I gave up dealing with flakey men by the time I turned 25. here's the thing — your time is value so you shouldn’t waste it. Don’t invest more days and time to a guy who’s inconsistent, flakey or already ghosted once previously. If you know you are a reliable person it is only fair to not accept or accommodate anything less from a guy in return. On top of that, I have seen what it looks like when a man really doesn’t want to lose a shot with me and let me just say there is nothing more true than the quote “if he wanted to he would.”

[Anonymous]

I tried to make plans with my male friend and he never got back to me , same guy hasn’t talked to me in almost a year.