What does it mean when he becomes aggressive during sex to the point of hurting?

[Anonymous]

After years this is the first time he looked at me with hate. He looked stressed and like a psychopath. He looked like he was doing it on purpose to hurt me.

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1 y

He was hurting me down there on propuse because when I looked at his eyes there was hate and after he looked stress and depressed. I’m not sure if it was because his ex cheated or I mentioned I fell in love with another guy. He was always very nice even though he has narcis tendencies but sometimes I feel his traumas or the more power hi gets (his a business man) is making him arrogant. We’re both single and decided to try our friendship one more time but I’m definitely will ignore him forever

[SecretsofKB]

Did you two discuss this kind of sex prior to this last session? If not, I would start that conversation before anymore sex happens.

If you're not on board with this level of aggression, then this my be heading a direction you don't want.

[Ironic_Method]

As someone who is into rough and sometimes violent sex, this is why we use safe words.

Good on you for ignoring someone who does this without consent.

[bowenw]

He sounds dangerous not caring if it is nonconsensual. It may be time to move on.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊
Best of luck to you.

[Danny_dan92]

He wants to kill you. I don't know. Ask him what’s wrong with him

[PaleDale]

He has issues, he's been hurt as a child