Does it surprise you the amount of men who have abusive relationship with older women?

[EmmiL]

Lot of guys are fine and enjoy it, but lot of guys I knew had bad experience with older women when they were teens or so. Even if they enjoy it at the time, it has a big impact on them later on, not always negative but it's usually grooming by the older woman if the guy is too young.

[MannMitAntworten]

I dated 10 years older as a 19 year old. We remained together till I was 21. Never was any abuse or anything of that nature. We only split because she moved away and we just grew apart from. The distance between us. Now, the girlfriend who followed after her a number of years later was 5 years younger than me. She was my first and o ly abusive woman in my life. She convinced me to move to the state where her parents where the day I arrived my hell began. A completely different woman. She was hell. That relationship definitely changed something in me. Probably took something from me too.

[EmmiL]

Yes younger women can be abusive too

[Shiprex]

I think the use of anyone for gratification when they're not old enough to comprehend the impact is wrong

[Joshydavid25]

Sort of, but not really especially with the amount of women teachers who end up with their students..

[BobbyLee789]

Yes one would hurt me, playfully (but it did hurt then and for a while afterwards).

[Danny_dan92]

Where are you getting this information from?

[EmmiL]

Stories I seen online and people I met online

[Danny_dan92]

I see. Well they’re strange men indeed

[EmmiL]

Why would they be strange for being abused?

You are defending the predator and shaming the victim, that's disgusting and toxic.

[Danny_dan92]

It would be smart to leave the relationship

[EmmiL]

They are obviously controlled by manipulation by the older women and don't even realise it.

Teens are way too naive to realise what is happening

[Danny_dan92]

Obviously

[EmmiL]

It's those old bitches that need to be judged

[Danny_dan92]

Here we go

[Danny_dan92]

Any fucken person that is abusive need to be judged. Regardless who they are. Got that?

[WonderingManII]

Never happened to me.

[PaleDale]

No it doesn't

[PeterLegg91]

Nothing surprises Me no more

[fish5505_87]

Yes.

[EmmiL]

Why does it surprise you

[fish5505_87]

I was surprised, not sure!