Why are some men abusive with women?

[KittygosMeoWW]

[BadApple69]

There are never any two things alike. People are no different. There are good people and bad people and everything in between. When a girl dates she needs to be watching out for these bad traits. I believe anyone can be pushed to violence because it’s in our nature. Good guys need to be pushed really hard while bad guys are quick to use violence. Girls screen your men well. Know what it is you are getting! And if he seems too good to be true…. He probably is a bad guy.

[loveslongnails]

There are different types of abuses men can inflict. Some men use their physical power over a woman to subdue a woman because they themselves are weak-minded and feel insecure about it. Other men will use their minds to play mental/emotional games and employ psychological abuse. That type is smarter, but he's still insecure on a very basic level. It's all about believing they're privileged and entitled to control women in the "natural order" of things.

[ProbablyClueless]

Abuse usually boils down to insecurity and a desire to control something.

A lot of those types of people don't feel in control in other aspects of their life, so they try to exert control over the few things that they can.

[Notherndude84]

Women should leave abusive relationships and seek out support for transitioning to a safer life

[KittygosMeoWW]

Yes but it’s not that simple sometimes.

[Notherndude84]

No I agree, especially since abusive people actively sever the relationships the person has, making it difficult to escape the abuse

[KittygosMeoWW]

That and the way laws are seen in my country, no action is really taken until someone gets hurt.

[Notherndude84]

That is completely wrong, it’s never acceptable to wait until a woman is injured or killed

[MikeTheBartender]

Low self esteem, broken homes, mental disorder.

[Anonymous]

Because they're the same gender as Donald Trump and Hitler.

[Dkc123]

Every action has an equal/grater and opposite reaction.

[KittygosMeoWW]

What do you mean by That

[Dkc123]

Some women nag do verbal n emotional abuse then they get the same treatment back. People don't admit it but its a fact. Rather they play the victim role.. again I'm not saying all.

[KittygosMeoWW]

What an ignorant thing to say, so if any person expresses them a certain way and it offends the other person… in a relationship it’s okay to hit the other person? Ew

[Dkc123]

Not certain way. Only If in an offensive n hurtful way. There's always a nicer and mature way to handle things. But it totally depends on our own maturity n understanding.

[DextroShade]

Most of the time it's because the woman abused them first. Equal rights, equal lefts!

[BarryLiverstone]

What kinda abuse do you mean?

[KittygosMeoWW]

Mainly physical

[BarryLiverstone]

I’ve heard that women will be aggressive emotionally in general while men will express aggression physically. So if a guy is hitting someone it’s likely that he feels aggressive in that moment.

But usually parents or other role models see a young boy hit and teach them not to. Teach them to cope with their emotions in another way.

Were you asking in general or just about one guy?

[Danny_dan92]

Because they’re cowards

[Anonymous]

Poor parenting and bad influences.

[LiamJHayden]

Probably bullied when younger.

[adventureswithleroy]

Because there duech bag losers

[Jmmmfi4]

BITCHES BE TRIPPIN

[KittygosMeoWW]

😒🙄

[love_conquers_lust]

Anger.

[Sabretooth]

They are weak.

[Slim57]

Mental issues