How to look like relationship material?

[Anonymous]

I want to look like I am relationship material not hookup material

I wear modest clothes

I pay for myself on dates

I also avoid talking about anything sexual

Yet guys have asked me for hookup. What more can I do?

[SueShe]

The problem is that nowadays, men are not really interested in a relationship, even less in a long term relationship but more in a hookup.

Even in your age group, a woman is seldom seen as a person that one could spend a lifelong with or at least a number of years. Everything boils down to the sexual part and once a woman is no longer a novelty, one needs to "trade" her for a new one.

It is difficult in our over sexualized society to find a decent man that is willing to find the qualities that you highlight.

You are an outsider if you don't talk about anything sexual and if you look decent and modest.

[Anonymous]

First of all you can’t look like relationship material. You have to be it. It’s something that is usually learned when you’re young. Just the same as a man. A man can’t look masculine. Just cause he gets a beard, drives a truck or whatever you think is masculine appearance wise doesn’t make him masculine. It’s in how he acts, how he talks, how he carries himself. Chances are that’s not you. These men can sense that. They know that’s why they see you as someone just to hookup w. Plus if I’m being honest you’re at an age where a lot of women start to realize I should have done things differently, now I’m getting older but still no man. No marriage. No kids. Women who are meant to be in marriages, relationships, are usually swooped up quickly. Do you know how to cook? How to clean? Nurture? No be argumentative all the time? Are you one of these girls who has to be the center of the party? Have you had a phase where you were just sleeping around? Dressing slutty? Etc, etc, etc.

[Anonymous]

You're doing the right things. Keep in mind you'll still be attractive and desirable to low quality men who jut want to hook up. But unlike women who dress to attract low quality men, you'll also attract higher quality men who are looking for something serious with a quality women. You'll just need to weed out the riffraff.

[Nikki1989]

That comes from within. You can't just look like it.

[glennos89]

Guys will be guys and their will always be guys trying to hook up with you. I'm not sure what you look like otherwise I could give you some better tips perhaps

[jahaims]

You don't know how to read guys then. You are still picking immature ones.

[In_Trance]

Everyone is relationship material. You just need to find a compatible partner

[spartan55]

You want to look like it, or be it?

[Anonymous]

Talk to different guys.