Guys , how would u approach a girl that passes by the place u work at everyday?

[Reem12345reem]

so basically i like this guy, i pass by his work every day bc he's near my house

he always sits outside on his break (he works at a cafe)

im just asking about the scenario if he might like me like what excuse would he use to stop and ask me questions or something

[lgh1998]

If she was walking by every day then I wouldn't unless I bumped into her naturally somewhere then I'd just say. "Hey, I always see you walk past where I work and always wanted to say hi but a good opportunity never arose. How are you?" Then I'd ask if she worked in the area or something and move on from there

[lgh1998]

To be fair actually if he's normally sitting outside when you walk by then I would just start by saying Hi when you walked by every day then cracking a joke one day and getting in that way. Kinda forcing myself to know you if that makes sense

[molonski2]

Make it easy for him , create a diversion , drop something , make a comment see if you can create something.

[katiesmuff]

I have a better idea, why don't you just casually say hi to him and ask how his day is going. Nothing wrong with the girl breaking the ice.

[ohsheeT]

Why don't you just say hi to him as your walking by
look in to his eyes smile and say hi , or how's your day

[BarryLiverstone]

Have you been inside the cafe and does he know your name?

[Reem12345reem]

last year I used to go there and no he doesn't know my name

[BarryLiverstone]

He isn’t likely to just stop you on the street when he’s on his break. If he doesn’t know your name, then all he can go by is what you look like. Are you much prettier than others who pass by him?

Might as well go to the cafe while he’s there so that he at least learns who you are and then he might be more willing to approach after his work shift is over.

[Reem12345reem]

oh 🙂💔

[BarryLiverstone]

Wasn’t trying to be mean. I imagined being him outside on my break. I’d see strangers walking by but would feel rude to stop them yk

[Reem12345reem]

i'll just follow : if he he wanted to he would

[BarryLiverstone]

Hope he tries.

[Reem12345reem]

thanks

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome.

But what if another guy from the cafe approached you?

[Reem12345reem]

i'd reject them

[Reem12345reem]

i mean i wouldn't be rude but i'd be more distant

[BarryLiverstone]

This is one reason some guys don’t approach. A random guy would have no idea you only want your crush to approach you

[Reem12345reem]

i would casual talk yes , nothing scary about that

[BarryLiverstone]

Exactly. Would you feel scared if a guy approached you? Like you said just to casually talk.

[WonderingManII]

I think it is getting dangerous for men to approach women. If the woman likes the guy, everything is ok. But if she doesn't like him, He risks being labeled a creep or worse.

[Anonymous]

What makes you think he has any interest in you? Why don't you say hi to him?

[Reem12345reem]

I don't know im pretty so i thought i can have a chance?

[Opinion Owner]

Just because you think you're pretty doesn't mean he thinks you're pretty. TALK to him.

[Reem12345reem]

oh 💀 i guess ur right maybe im not his type , i don't want to make a first move learned that lesson last year

[Opinion Owner]

What do you mean?

[Reem12345reem]

im never making the first move

[Opinion Owner]

Why not? What lesson did you learn last year?

[Opinion Owner]

Saying hi to someone isn't making a move.

[Reem12345reem]

long story but I really don't like it, if he REALLY likes me at least he'll show me signs

[Reem12345reem]

to me it is

[Opinion Owner]

Have you shown HIM any signs besides doing... nothing?

[Reem12345reem]

no 💀 but i believe in telepathy lol

[Opinion Owner]

You're young, I get it. Guys need to know they are attractive too. It's just not worth it to approach women anymore.

[Reem12345reem]

oh okay

[Opinion Owner]

Guys learn to deal with rejection early and often. I was first rejected when I was like 13 and it sucked, but I knew I couldn't give up. If I did I would have gone my whole life without a partner. Rejection sucks, but it's hardly the end of the world. Women seem to think it is though.

[Reem12345reem]

yeah I get it , i just want to know if he's genuinely interested in me i don't want to force it

[Opinion Owner]

He might be, might not be. I am pretty amazed you won't at least say hi to him.

[Opinion Owner]

It's very low risk.

[Reem12345reem]

im already shy soooo

[Opinion Owner]

Well, if you are waiting for some guy to just fall in your lap without any effort on your part you will likely be very disappointed. Good luck!

[Reem12345reem]

Thanksss

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't if I'm working.

[Reem12345reem]

he's on his break