Is this good or bad?

[Anonymous]

Me and this guy have been hooking up on and off for 13 years. We recently started hooking up again. Tonight he said that I’m, “a good little fuck.” The sex is good in my opinion and I’m probably overthinking this. I guess I’m wondering if this is compliment or nah.

[RespectfulGuy]

Hey,

13 years is a long period. Long enough for a newborn to become a teenager.

And I think you and him should make a decision to enter a LTR or break off.

Sounds extreme? Yes. And I mean it.

Too much time has been invested. And in the stock market, stocks held for 13 years should make money otherwise liquidated for better returns.

And since we don't have many 13 years, it's better we decide what to do with such a relationship with a calculated open mind.

[Danny_dan92]

Yes it’s a compliment. Now you might want to tamper yourself. Because it’s very obvious you’re catching feelings

[Asker]

I do care about him (I’ve known him a long time) but I don’t want to be with him like that. He’s a cheater. We’re on and off cuz it stops when one of us is in a relationship. There was one time he didn’t tell me right away and I was the side piece for about 3 months…he’s a cheater. This time around I laid down some ground rules. One of them that I can’t be the side piece again, I deserve respect. Second he needs to respect my wishes. My no’s are no’s and yeses are yeses.

[spartan55]

Spoken like a man who has no respect for you. What a surprise. /s

[bddddd]

My general approach is that it is more important to meet minds than meet uglies. Just one guy's views.

[BarryLiverstone]

Seems like a good one. What would make it bad?

[Asker]

Because I wouldn’t put it past him to mean it in any other way. I also believe it could be a compliment. He’s very active so I feel like it’s easy to misinterpret. Does that make sense?

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m not sure what you mean by very active

[BarryLiverstone]

Over 13 years my guess is he’s said lots of things tho

[britishbby]

Yeh it's a compliment aha bless you