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My best friend called me last night, we talked for a couple hours and towards the end, first he told me he wants friends with benefits with me and I said "I don't think I can do it, especially in the long run. I'm not that type of girl and I want way more than that." He said he knows I do. We were talking about how I've been having feelings for him and he asked me "why didn't you tell me that before I got in my relationship?" He’s being catfished but I don’t think he knows that. And I said "well, because you've been with her since last June, and we got reconnected in November around Thanksgiving time." He said if he wasn't in that relationship he'd be with me. And that with other people they'd want me to change my attitude, not put stress of what I'm going through on them, and some would want me to lose weight, but he doesn't mind if I tell him what I'm going through and it puts stress on him, he wants me to tell him everything. I said for the weight thing I wouldn't change something like that for anyone, if I did it would be for myself. And he said I'm perfect for him and when we were getting ready to get off the phone he said he loves me, and I quietly said it too.
P. S. I’ve known him for almost 8 years
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