Does he hate me or like me?

[Lalalove11]

Avoiding eye contact in a group, I feel either could be true. Which seems more likely?

[Nauorbb]

I’d guess either totally disinterested like maybe finds you kinda repulsive for some reason so doesn’t want you on the brain at all, or he’s attracted but trying to control it.

[Lalalove11]

This is the almost funny thing 😂 it could be either

[Nauorbb]

I think if you analyze him more you may be able to get hints.

[spartan55]

This is a delusional take.

[Anonymous]

Talk to him.

[Shiprex]

Neither, maybe he is aware you're looking at him and doesn't want to make eye contact with someone staring at them

[Lalalove11]

It seemed a stark contrast to last time. I think my choice is keep making an effort to see him or leave it alone

[Shiprex]

Decision for you should be based on how you want future things to go between you two. Ignore or open up

[spartan55]

Wow, could you give any details at all? I'm leaning towards him hating you, but it's tough to say.

[Lalalove11]

He invited me to play music at a festival I never got back to him. Got really in me head about it and did all the wrong things. This time went in with two sisters he avoided eye contact with me

[spartan55]

Why would he bother? You blew him off.

[Lalalove11]

Didn't mean to at all, wasn't even sure if his intentions was serious. Anxiety genuinely got the better of me this time I think I'll leave him alone

[Lalalove11]

I didn’t follow up. Not out of cruelty — but out of uncertainty, nerves, overthinking, maybe fear.

[spartan55]

Doesn't matter that 'you didn't mean it'. Why do his intentions matter at such an early point? Did he know your intentions? You have a bunch of excuses for being a lousy person towards him. Have some accountability ffs.

[Lalalove11]

Cheers pal

[spartan55]

You asked.

[OneViewpoint]

He probably thinks you have horrible communication skills.

[Lalalove11]

I do

[Lalalove11]

Probs autistic can't really help it should leave him alone

[MrZameer]

follow me please 🙏