Is it true that everything a guy does for a woman, even when they’re married or in a relationship, is all to get sex from her even if he loves her?

[Anonymous]

Like yea he may really like her or grow to like her or even love her but it’s in their nature to naturally chase after sex from a woman to procreate and leave his legacy behind. Just like a male lion and his lioness. The only difference is human men have emotions so that’s where the love/likeness comes in.

[RespectfulGuy]

Let me attempt to answer this question by asking "why do we study hard during school days?"

Is it only to get a degree or PhD? Or we hope to have a good career? A career that is job satisfying? Or a career that pays well?

Why earn so much money? To buy a car? House? For what?

Is it to have assets to "settle down"? Or just to show off?

And why show off? (probably most agree it's vain.)

Or to settle down, to have a family, which mean having kids, which mean sex is part of the menu.

Got my point?

Yes, we're not living in a point on a timeline, but over a period of 70 or 80 years. And during this period, we seek out happiness, contentment and satisfaction with life physically, mentally and emotionally.

And I this pursuit, sex is a part of the process.

To conclude, we may appear to prioritise sex. But to truly having it as a part of a happy life, sex is part of a longer journey in life. Some may abuse sex, others make it a blessing to both in the relationship. Many still save sex after marriage to put priority on other achievements first.

[OneViewpoint]

Absolutely. All men are simple creatures. We offer a simple transaction based relationship. We just want to buy sex. We provide a home to keep our sex toy ready for use at any time. We wash and wax your car and expect a handjob in return. We take you out to dinner and a Broadway show and expect you to spread your legs. Want us to listen to you bitch about your mom? Blowjob. Do I need to hang out with your friends and pretend to have a good time? You need to ride me. Are we watching a chick flick for the 3rd weekend in a row? Grind on my lap. Expect me to take care of you when you're sick? OK, but sleep naked for a week afterwards. That's what all men are. Just sex sex sex all day every day.

It's a wonder we find time to create symphonies and rock ballads. Write novels and poetry. Play a piano or guitar. Read. Mow the lawn. Fix the car. Go to work. Clean the garage. Play with the kids. Walk the dog. Grill dinner. Paint the family room. Learn new technology. Go for a run or a workout. Shop for your birthday or anniversary present. Plan vacation. Or help out a friend.

[Asker]

The end sounds like sarcasm 🤣but when you really think about it. All the things men do outside of sex comes from the motivation they get out of sex/vagina if we being real. Vagina will have a man working the hardest he ever has. Almost like it gives men an identity 😭.

[OneViewpoint]

Yeah, sex. That's why men risk their lives fighting wars. The thanks we get are just wonderful.

And no, your vagina is not that big a part of our lives. Easily replaced. Comes with drama and chaos. High maintenance. Very costly in every way. Hence why I seldom engage with women who hit on me and enjoy my freedom unless I feel like getting laid or I meet an exceptional woman (rare). Most are imminently forgettable.

[Asker]

Vagina is not a big deal/big part of your lives as far as other things existing in the would to do other than a woman BUT behind every or most successful man is a woman and her vagina is all I’m saying lol.

[OneViewpoint]

At some point the games become a turnoff and sex is just a physical thing like doing a line of coke once in a while. Great for 10 minutes. And you're good for a few weeks of peace and quiet.

[Asker]

Again, I said nothing about games, I said nothing about vagina not being disposable (though it isn’t because you can’t un attach a vagina or penis even after you have had it) I’m saying it’s power behind that anatomy. You just said it’s like doing a line of coke. Why do people do lines of coke? For that high. Some of the greatest artist you know did coke and made great music, poetry, movies, books, inventions. And that’s what you just compared sex (vagina) to proving my point.

[slatyb]

No, it's not. Not everyone is so transactional. I never think "I did this for her, she should have sex with me." Anyway she is willing almost all the time. I wouldn't be with a woman who regularly said no.

[Stevepro68]

No just no. When she is happy and makes me feel chosen and loved for doing something. I am not thinking forward to sex. She wants that anyways. It's makes me feel happy not hopeful.

[Anonymous]

If he is a shitty partner, yeah. I wouldn't be with someone unless I wanted to build a life with her.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Procreate? At SEVENTY-ONE? I'm good !!!

[LazerBean]

Nope.

[Joe_Kirk]

Not true

[MasterKS]

mostly yes!