What turns you on instantly?

Question

Could be something behavioral, some bodily feature or something a person may wear.. What's your instant turn on?

DJB72 · Accepted Answer

Confidence. When the lady knows what she wants and makes it clear she expects to receive it.

I had a girlfriend about 26 years ago who was pretty, sexy figure, cute smile. Had no idea how things were going between us at the start until I'd been away on a training course for a couple of weeks and we were going out for dinner when I got home. She asked me to pick her up before I went home to change, which I did.

Picked her up, went to my place to change for going out and she asked if she could fix drinks while I changed. We'd never been physical to that point. Said yes, went to my room to get changed. Turned my back to the door to take off my pants and shorts - habit, I still do - turned back and she was standing in front of me with two drinks that were mostly ice wearing a smile, a silk scarf I wore when I was on my bike and nothing else.

It wasn't that she was naked that turned me on. It was that she wasn't prepared to let me misunderstand what she wanted. Pure honesty, totally direct with zero ambiguity.

After we broke up - and I didn't get why at the time - I met my wife. She wasn't as direct about anything. She gave "hints" that weren't clear what she actually wanted that caused issues around communication in the beginning. Beautiful smile, sexy eyes, loved every part of her to the point I proposed on our first date. Since we lasted over 20 years of marriage before she died I know it was real, but we never had the same intensity as I'd had with my ex. But you can't buil a marriage on what I had with my ex. It burns out too fast.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sideboob

DishLady · Accepted Answer

The eyes lighting up when the guy looks at me and the lower tone of his voice when he says something while looking at me like that. Doesn't matter what it is he says... Whether it's "pass the chips" or "can i have your number?" I'm on cloud nine and the launchpad simulation starts off... in my mind I can see us being naughty.

Rashmixoxo · Accepted Answer

Veiny hands, abs and shoulders 🤤

BazookaTrouper · Answer

These are relatively normal things women do that I personally find highly erotic:  Wearing the "winged" eyeliner Wearing tights & black boots ( especially these kind ) Bonus points if she's squatting down or stepping on something whilst wearing them Laughing evilly/maniacally. Staring at me like this: Basically the 😈 emoji

OneViewpoint · Answer

I don't know. And I like that. That sort of turn on usually comes out of the blue for me. There is no set criteria or rules. On any given day in any given situation with any given woman, it may happen. It's a surprise. That's part of the turn on.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

About strangers? Nothing at all. About my girl? Too many possibilities, I don't really monitor that, nor I wish to, I prefer to not know why in advance. But I can fancy understanding why, after the fact, she's curious about it as well. Which creates funny questions :)

RavVid · Answer

Seeing a little more than I think I am intended to see does it.

Unexpected and unguarded hugs from girls with small firm breasts is #1 though. By unguarded I mean no attempt to avoid breast to chest contact. Most often happens when they are drunk.

When they are friends or a friends girlfriend I do have the decency to feel bad at getting an erection from it but I can't deny having liked it... a lot.

Anonymous · Answer

Was stopped at the traffic lights the other day on my way to work. Beside the lights there was a field and in the field there was a horse. I looked over at the horse and to my surprise he had the longest thickest erection id ever seen. I was hypnotised. Before I knew it cars were honking at me as the lights were green. When I got to work my underwear was absolutely soaking and I was so turned on i had to give myself a quick rub in the toilet.

rtj1211 · Answer

It's hard to describe, but certain women's eyes are magnetic. Moreover, I've seen hundreds of on the face of it delicious female bodies, but when there are dead eyes accompanying them, I simply don't find them attractive at all...

nawtee_me · Answer

Just about every country is what it is because it pushed someone else out or took over land from someone else. As for bombing others, what about those that shot rockets into Israel first? Why don’t you blame them for starting it? I support Israel…..

red_knight · Answer

When she sends me such pics.. I like women who know how to tease, see i have an armpit fetish, the scent after a shower, post work out, to me is my V my drugs..

sawno · Answer

If that info fell in to the wrong hands that would be dangerous. So ill instead give the less instant / more broad version and say anything that signals i'm getting sex.

AviatorTom · Answer

When she finds my ON/OFF switch., a talent not all women have.

Billlewis · Answer

Backless, strapless open toed mules with red lacquered toenails, especially if she knows she's driving me crazy... lol

Tarifa · Answer

I'll let my wife surprise me. She is very prone to flashing her tits when she means business. In all imaginable places.

convo_king89 · Answer

one turn on for me is if I see a cute girl and I see she is wearing regular panties. Maybe her jeans are sagging or she got some think panty lines. I think it’s cute when she is wearing a pair of Hanes or FTL briefs.

Massageman · Answer

I like green for some reason.

SotiCoto · Answer

Nothing.  None of my fetishes are that quick-acting on me because I quite simply don't have enough libido to be turned on instantly by anything.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Up until yesterday, I WOULD'VE said, my girlfriend but, apparently, I don't have one, anymore.

serious · Answer

If the woman has a super short BOY CUT hairstyle in combination with a toned physique.

Cormac995 · Answer

Having my neck or ears touched or kissed. Instantly in the mood.

Karachan · Answer

Thong bikini bottoms A pierced bellybutton Waxed forearms A woman's desire for anal intercourse

RHK36 · Answer

Sometimes just the overall shape of her ass, her confidence in how she looks and probably how she smiles.

genericname85 · Answer

being turned on doesn't work like that xD it doesn't happen instantly. at least not for me.

Anonymous · Answer

Elf ears.  Cate Blanchette as lady Galadriel. What a hottie!

Anonymous · Answer

A certain body type I always find intensely attractive. The P body shape. But it doesn't always turn me on. I don't really think I have something that always will.

Arcadian222 · Answer

Looking at a girl who is tall, having good proportions and nice gym/sporty body. can't judge mentality or personality instantly.

TheoreticallyGreat · Answer

Generally for me it's passion or being desired. It feels nice to feel wanted.

Iron_Man · Answer

Not a sexualturn on, but women that flirt makes me feel good

JonAsk69 · Answer

Pussy,…The look, the shape, the feel the taste.

Jerre · Answer

Seeing a girls nipples poke against her shirt, dress or sweater

whereismyjohnny · Answer

Intelligence.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Neck kissing if you kiss my neck be ready cause its about to go down

Anonymous · Answer

Just knowing that sexual activity with a female is imminent, or about to happen

jazzy34 · Answer

A man who’s smart and articulate. Mmmmm. ❤️

SarahP080106 · Answer

A forceful grab and kiss

NathanDavis · Answer

genuine confidence...

Shiprex · Answer

Forthright attitude and intentional.

Nonamegiven · Answer

Dominance

Med_guy1978 · Answer

A nice pair of legs leading up to a mini skirt...

Bloodparadise · Answer

When my skin rubs with his

Deepinthought345 · Answer

Kindess, friendliness, sense of humor, eyes.

Fftggg · Answer

A good ol' Bust maybe..

Anonymous · Answer

Hot girls with nice legs ;)

FenixG45 · Answer

Intelligence (sapiosexual)

236color · Answer

Blowjobs

LiaRaven · Answer

Eating sweets lol

jjj101010 · Answer

Happy to discuss it privately

Anonymous · Answer

Women who lift heavy.

Wise4myage · Answer

Boobs and cleavage.

Caliguy88 · Answer

Eyes. Then butt.

jahaims · Answer

My wife

Anonymous · Answer

Neck kisses

Boobslover01 · Answer

Boobs

yk9998 · Answer

A killer smile 😊

MasterKS · Answer

nude women.

Anonymous · Answer

Great hair

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