Playing cool / being truly emotional and showing helpless romance?

[Anonymous]

We’ve always known men to be the initiators sexually and emotionally. I wonder whether your girl initiated sex, tried hardly to turn you on, and always said nice words to you, would this make you take her for granted or make her less attractive in the long run as compared to a girl who plays it cool often?

Yes I’d slowly lose interest

Not really, let me explain in the comments

[spartan55]

Why would I lose interest if my partner is showing interest towards me? I swear I don't know where girls get some of their ideas about relatiinahops. Frankly too many of them make zero sense.

[Asker]

We just get scared you might take us for granted because of the perception that men love to chase that’s all

[spartan55]

There's another on
Chasing is something that doesn't happen from a guy's end. Guys don't like to chase. (source: I'm a guy. And I've known many guys in my lifetime) Maybe the ones that aren't looking for anything but sex But nearly ALL guys can't stand chasing, and won't do it. Think I'm wrong? Try it out.
If you think guys would ever take getting treated well for granted you are seriously out of your mind.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

What about not playing games and act like an actual mature adult?

[sinestro23]

depends on the guy, some will lose interest/cheat no matter what... others like me would absolutely love it/wish our women cared enough to make that kind of effort

[Chayce]

Depends if I was her first man or not.

[Asker]

If you were?

[Anonymous]

I need her to be extremely direct with me.