Who you go for a woman who already has children if you felt undeniable chemistry?

[Anonymous]

If you felt physically, emotionally and intellectually drawn but knew she had young children, would that matter or put you off?

[RavVid]

Depends on your age bracket and if you want children. At a certain age most women have children -if they are going to have them.

Then you have to ask why they separated from the father; that could be a predictor they'll separate from you. If they haven't had children it indicates they are more Me oriented and not family oriented. So that is bad sign too.

I could go for woman with children if every thing was right otherwise but I'd be thinking hard about it. Not going to marry her though.

[Anonymous]

As pretty or cute as she might be, no I wouldn’t. Too much going on there. Life can be hard just trying to meet someone, even harder when she’s got kids. So no. I wouldn’t object to an friends with benefits, but an actual relationship would be out of th question.

[WhiteThought]

Of course it would matter, but I can't simply ignore the feelings I have for her. I would at least consider it. The chances I would go for it are unlikely, but it's still a possibility.

[Asker]

Oh really m, so kind of unlikely then, is that because you see it as too mich trouble? What about if you really liked her?

[WhiteThought]

I just answered that

[Berethor]

I considered it mainly because of my age, but if she single mom is a pretty big turn-off.

[Asker]

Oh really, why would it turn you off if you really liked her say?

[Berethor]

Because why would I want to raise children of other man? and she basically a leftover.

[Anonymous]

Honestly I want to... But I know I can't do that. Looking at that kid would be a constant reminder that she was doing the same thing with some other guy, having same moments with him.

If the kid is grown up and moved out, then I would love to do it.

[Anonymous]

Probably not. I probably would never get to the point that I was that drawn to her like you described. Definitely not if she is a women from my past. My opinion would change if I was a single parent myself.

[Ariesman81]

Subtract 3 points for being a single mom. Don't shoot the messenger.

[jahaims]

I wouldn't even get that far with her to know her. Single mom = makes bad choices

[In_Trance]

Absolutely not

[Asker]

Oh right, what? Too much hassle?